So yeah I dig the concept of relationships with older men...
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(05-07-2017, 03:51 AM)Trix

I get the feeling like when she is talking  he has this look on his face that suggests 'how much longer can i tolerate this bitch talking ' , i mean he is clearly annoyed each time she interjects .  Trix i think you are right about it being his idea to have her with other people  because  lets face it it is very sexually arousing for most people to think about .  Yeah he comes across as a closet homo , he most likely can still get erect for this naive girl  but  you sense that he likes the domination game and would be fully satisfied  with a young male.  So if he encourages her to rope in some some dudes to fuck her then maybe just maybe he will be able to jump in the bed and screw those guys with her watching  . She could be in danger , I keep imagining her buried in a shallow grave in some random spot in the desert.
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#62
I don't think she's in physical danger... if you look at her, she's always in good physical shape. She always has her hair done and she looks healthy, nah she looks totally fine. This is mental stuff that I think is a problem.

For example, cult leader dudes will always try and isolate you from your family/friends, they try to get you to be super dependent on them. Well, back several years ago, Krista used to do her 'channeling' by herself... now it's always him asking her questions, instead of her just talking.

I dunno, it's just kinda weird and sad. Krista seems like a sweet and caring person. I just think she's been taken advantage of and brainwashed by this cult leader wannabe dude, he even said he wants to "have a retreat". It all makes sense now. He basically wants to start a cult and be a cult leader.

What I find kind of unsettling is him calling these polyamorous hookups "sacred". He's basically saying this isn't just regular sex because the animal in me wants to fuck your body, it's sacred and divinely inspired! LOL... it just seems like a real mindfuck to me.

Look at his eyes too... especially when he's annoyed. I bet he can be really mean and insulting. In that livestream video I originally made this thread about, Krista mentioned her shorter new hairstyle and said that Archie (that's my name for him now) said it made her look "older". She seemed sorta hurt by it. To me, this chick looks quite young. She's very young and pretty looking to me.

They've been together at least 5 years. Chicks are still pretty malleable in their early 20s. It could be that he got ahold of her at just the right time and started working his brainwashing on her. My guess is she really loves him and wants to make him happy. It's sad man, I think he's really fucked her mind up. She was probably a little crazy before meeting him, that's probably why they gravitated toward each other... she was probably part of some kinda fruit loop group and either met him IRL or online.

She's also got some of the other classic victim relationship traits like fear of driving. She's got this super immature childlike quality, which there's nothing wrong with being youthful, it's only when you add that naive dynamic into relationships that it becomes a problem. Something that can be manipulated.

So here is the first ever video on her channel, 5 years old, and she looks, acts and speaks a lot more maturely in it compared to these days if you want my opinion:




And here is 2 years ago, a video she made about the open relationship thing where she says it's "new to her" AKA not her fucking idea at all:




And here's the newest open relationship update from late 2016:




So there she is basically disillusioned with polyamory and saying she's had a few weird run-ins with people. What bothers me about this is that Archie is basically an old pro at his stupid little open relationship game. Krista is new to it, as she said, and has been fed a lie of what it's even about. So she's going around out there all new and naive to it all, while Archie doesn't give a shit, he knows how it works. This isn't something they "explored together", and that is just unbalanced.

Sounds to me like Archie sprang this polyamory bullshit onto Krista 3 or 4 years into their relationship, after he was sure she was comfortable enough and settled in enough to feel secure and not want to jeopardize that security by dumping him for his outrageous suggestion.

If you have a cute, pretty, hot chick 15 years younger than you who is willing to put up with your blathering psycho shit in the first place, you're lucky. But then being greedy and selfish enough to push for an open relationship, randomly and out of nowhere? Well then you're just a piece of shit.

It's one thing if people enter into a relationship making it clear that they might want to be polyamorous someday... but if it's never mentioned and you just spring it on somebody? That's fucked up. Because Archie is (at least) 15 years older than her, HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS INTO. He knew. He ain't got the excuse of being a young guy. He was in all likelihood OVER FORTY when they got together. LOL! That fucking guy knew what he wanted and I bet he had it planned the whole time. To wait and be patient, give it time for her to feel comfortable and dependent on him... then spring the open relationship bullshit on her.

If that is true, she should dump him and just work extra hard promoting her books and channeling and shit, she'll make it on her own. If he really has been brainwashing her that hardcore, she needs to get away sooner than later so she doesn't lose the rest of her youth to him.
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#63
WTF look at this pic from Krista's Instagram... http://i.imgur.com/9VhSmJ7.jpg

That bigass dude might as well be grabbing her by the pussy! And look how nice she is with the way she's holding him and stuff. She's so naive. Man I bet people take advantage of her hardcore. It's freakin' wrong!!!

He's pretty fucking hot though. Archie's puny as shit compared to that guy!
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#64
(05-07-2017, 01:06 PM)Trix I don't think she's in physical danger... if you look at her, she's always in good physical shape. She always has her hair done and she looks healthy, nah she looks totally fine. This is mental stuff that I think is a problem.

For example, cult leader dudes will always try and isolate you from your family/friends, they try to get you to be super dependent on them. Well, back several years ago, Krista used to do her 'channeling' by herself... now it's always him asking her questions, instead of her just talking.

I dunno, it's just kinda weird and sad. Krista seems like a sweet and caring person. I just think she's been taken advantage of and brainwashed by this cult leader wannabe dude, he even said he wants to "have a retreat". It all makes sense now. He basically wants to start a cult and be a cult leader.

What I find kind of unsettling is him calling these polyamorous hookups "sacred". He's basically saying this isn't just regular sex because the animal in me wants to fuck your body, it's sacred and divinely inspired! LOL... it just seems like a real mindfuck to me.

Look at his eyes too... especially when he's annoyed. I bet he can be really mean and insulting. In that livestream video I originally made this thread about, Krista mentioned her shorter new hairstyle and said that Archie (that's my name for him now) said it made her look "older". She seemed sorta hurt by it. To me, this chick looks quite young. She's very young and pretty looking to me.

They've been together at least 5 years. Chicks are still pretty malleable in their early 20s. It could be that he got ahold of her at just the right time and started working his brainwashing on her. My guess is she really loves him and wants to make him happy. It's sad man, I think he's really fucked her mind up. She was probably a little crazy before meeting him, that's probably why they gravitated toward each other... she was probably part of some kinda fruit loop group and either met him IRL or online.

She's also got some of the other classic victim relationship traits like fear of driving. She's got this super immature childlike quality, which there's nothing wrong with being youthful, it's only when you add that naive dynamic into relationships that it becomes a problem. Something that can be manipulated.

So here is the first ever video on her channel, 5 years old, and she looks, acts and speaks a lot more maturely in it compared to these days if you want my opinion:

And here is 2 years ago, a video she made about the open relationship thing where she says it's "new to her" AKA not her fucking idea at all:




And here's the newest open relationship update from late 2016:




So there she is basically disillusioned with polyamory and saying she's had a few weird run-ins with people. What bothers me about this is that Archie is basically an old pro at his stupid little open relationship game. Krista is new to it, as she said, and has been fed a lie of what it's even about. So she's going around out there all new and naive to it all, while Archie doesn't give a shit, he knows how it works. This isn't something they "explored together", and that is just unbalanced.

Sounds to me like Archie sprang this polyamory bullshit onto Krista 3 or 4 years into their relationship, after he was sure she was comfortable enough and settled in enough to feel secure and not want to jeopardize that security by dumping him for his outrageous suggestion.

If you have a cute, pretty, hot chick 15 years younger than you who is willing to put up with your blathering psycho shit in the first place, you're lucky. But then being greedy and selfish enough to push for an open relationship, randomly and out of nowhere? Well then you're just a piece of shit.

It's one thing if people enter into a relationship making it clear that they might want to be polyamorous someday... but if it's never mentioned and you just spring it on somebody? That's fucked up. Because Archie is (at least) 15 years older than her, HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS INTO. He knew. He ain't got the excuse of being a young guy. He was in all likelihood OVER FORTY when they got together. LOL! That fucking guy knew what he wanted and I bet he had it planned the whole time. To wait and be patient, give it time for her to feel comfortable and dependent on him... then spring the open relationship bullshit on her.

If that is true, she should dump him and just work extra hard promoting her books and channeling and shit, she'll make it on her own. If he really has been brainwashing her that hardcore, she needs to get away sooner than later so she doesn't lose the rest of her youth to him.


Sorry to keep gushing over you, Trix, but you are SO spot on about everything. You're are so insightful and wise. You should be the new Dear Abbie....  with a lime twist. A young and hot Dear Abbie type person, though I know you don't give advice so much as you observe and comment on things -  but you are really good at analyzing things and pointing out the bullshit.
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#65
I totally agree with GG, you have a good grasp on people deep inside. Things they would be ashamed to reveal you just dig right into the core.

But what do you expect from a couple of turds like them, greatness?

That guy in the picture has a hot body until you see his stretched out ears, that made me see more into his mind and realize he's a turd too.
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#66
As my husband would say, when you poke a piece of shit what do you expect to find inside gold? No it's just going to stink more.

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#67
(05-07-2017, 02:09 PM)Cream of Caulk As my husband would say, when you poke a piece of shit what do you expect to find inside gold? No it's just going to stink more.

Smilewink

He is so great! LOL.
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#68
(05-07-2017, 02:10 PM)GG
(05-07-2017, 02:09 PM)Cream of Caulk As my husband would say, when you poke a piece of shit what do you expect to find inside gold? No it's just going to stink more.

Smilewink

He is so great! LOL.

lol, thanks! I'm just glad I had the good sense to find him!
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#69
That's exactly what I want to do...

I want to analyze people's life situations and give advice through that analysis.

I offer a counseling service but no one has used it yet.

I guess because there's not adequate proof of my expertise...

Banana

I'm workin' on it!!!
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#70
(05-07-2017, 04:22 PM)Trix That's exactly what I want to do...

I want to analyze people's life situations and give advice through that analysis.

I offer a counseling service but no one has used it yet.

I guess because there's not adequate proof of my expertise...

Banana

I'm workin' on it!!!

i think topless counselling  would really get the ball rolling  honey :  

http://sarahwhitetherapy.com
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#71
Oh la la, what a delicious niche!!!

BananasexWhip

It's brilliant.

Quite brilliant.

Having said that, I want something that will scale with my age...

Things built around being young and hot are inevitably doomed.

Better to build up a reputation not based on any time constraints, that way your client number would strengthen with time (if anything) rather than be set up to degrade over time.
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#72




Dude...

He seems sooo droll in this video...

Like totally bummed.

What happened, Archie, did your flyass fineass sweetass little younger lady finally chew you a new asshole over your silly polygamy bullshit?!

"In the past I was in relationships where I thought to myself if my partner knows I like looking at other opposites, it would trigger the partner. So I tucked it, like everybody else who does it."

AHA! So it's other chicks, apparently he's not into suckin' down that sausage!

He does kinda look like an alien.

I gotta say so far though I don't disagree with what he's saying in this video.

I mean it's a harsh truth but nobody wants to admit it. Nobody wants to admit that the eye never stops wandering and you never stop wanting to fuck other people.

My only qualm with the whole thing is not being open from the beginning about it.

Okay I'm gonna have to watch this fucking video in 1.5 speed, ain't nobody got time for this.

At 20:21 he starts talking about this hypothetical scenario where a woman has a significant other, AND a male friend who she gets with secretly... AND THE LOOK. OF PURE FUCKING SEXUAL AROUSAL. IN HIS EYES. I cannot even.

So like... that's this dude's WETTEST DREAM. To be the friend who bangs that chick in secret. I CAN TELL. I can tell. I CAN TELL. I can tell that's his fantasy.

I bet he has a fucking boner while he's talking about this.

So he was living with a chick in Germany and the relationship was boring and she was unhappy too, so he says, and apparently he "thought about it" and "looked within" and decided he'd approach her about making the relationship "open". Then he says she threw him out. He said it "broke his heart".

He's told the story of how he left Germany before. He just never mentioned this part. And that was like a huge turning point in his life. That was when he was "divinely guided," as he claims, to move to Sedona.

I gotta say though, I agree with him at 22:38 when he says that he respects being honest about wanting to fuck other people rather than hiding it.

So he says before he left Germany, he had a 'no strings attached' agreement hookup with a chick because he needed comfort and he says she's his "best friend today". Now if I was Krista, I'd hear that and be like, *snap*, OH HEY-UHL NO!

Just saying.

So at 27:15 he starts talking about how he and Krista have to go through "flare-ups" of insecurity (on her end of course) and arguments about banging the living shit out of other people... WELL YA DON'T FUCKING SAY!!!

Let me level here.

Just let me fucking level FOR A MOMENT.

TO ME...

It's more offensive to say you want to fuck other people because of a "SACRED ATTRACTION"... than it is to say you want to fuck them just because they're FUCKING HOT and you wanna be IN THEIR BODY.

Right?

Am I right?

I'm right about this.

IT'S MORE OFFENSIVE... to claim a "SACRED" attraction with somebody else than one that is JUST PURELY PHYSICAL. It's more HURTFUL to say "I've got a sacred connection with this person who's not you" and then want to FUCK THAT PERSON. Than it is. To SIMPLY. JUST. WANT. TO FUCKING. BANG.

It's WAY MORE HURTFUL.

On an emotional, MENTAL LEVEL... which is where FEMALES OPERATE FROM.

So this guy... IS A FUCKING IDIOT.

He's fashioning this whole BS story around the logic of it being "better" if it's passed under the guise of being "sacred" than just being CUZ HE WANTS TO FUCKING BANG A HOT BITCH.

And it's like he has NO IDEA that it's TOTALLY OFFENSIVE AND EVEN WORSE... than just being physical attraction. WHICH IT IS. JUST. PHYSICAL. ATTRACTION.

"SACRED"... ROFL!!! GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK!!!

Okay.

Now that I got that out... I feel better.

Agh...

Thank God for the speed option on videos... what the FUCK is this fucking guy even talking about.

I can't handle it. Seriously.

Fucking swear.

I don't dislike the guy... I even mostly agree with him, I really do.

But I see the problems with his understanding and his approach, and I'm gonna call that shit out because it's gonna cause him issues with relationships.

Having said that, I DO think he's a wannabe cult leader deep inside and I DO think that he's brainwashed and taken advantage of sweet, sweet young, delicious, DARE I SAY... pert little Krista Raisa.

That is my opinion.
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#73
Open relationships and swinging isn't for everyone, it can really screw with a person's psyche.

I think it boils down to his inability to be loyal. Then that screwed her up because it went against her principles, she probably feels guilty af whereas he doesn't care. I can see his point to not have feelings as doing something wrong but there is an essential need for loyalty because anything else is like back stabbing, there is no trust. Loyalty is a foundation for most everything.

Loyalty isn't just a husband wife thing, it's a family thing. My husband was raised to have strong loyal ties with his family, if his mother didn't speak to his sister, he didn't speak to her sister. They kept it tight knit, I wasn't raised this way so it's a total blessing for me to belong to a family that is as loyal af. We teach our kids that if someone say's something about the other, you kick their ass. This is what keeps a family strong and together. 

The lack of a man being loyal to his wife, then he cannot be loyal to his own household and that keeps other people feeling insecure. I know this because my dad was a serial cheater too, there was never a sense of belonging and I couldn't trust my parents because of the situation they both put me in.
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#74
Yeah Creamy, you raise a good point... I've heard these two fruities mention people who are swingers whilst having children to look after. It's interesting because they both came from broken families... no dad around with Archie, just his mom's "partners" as he called them. Krista's parents were divorced too (pretty sure she said that). So neither one of them ever had an example of people sticking together.

I don't come from a divorced family, but I can see the allure of an open relationship... like I said earlier, people never stop wanting to fuck other people. They just stop being honest about it under the facade of "togetherness" with somebody. It's all messed up, IMO, but it's still better just to be honest from the start. Of course people need time to learn these things, so the folly of youth has to be taken into consideration. By the time somebody is a little older and had a relationship worth mentioning in terms of seriousness and duration, they really should know what they want.
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#75
I don't see it so much as you wanting to be a swinger or in an open relationship, I see it more as you being curious. You are at a horny as heck age, it's totally understandable. Women say it doesn't hit until their 40's-50's, I don't think that's true when you have already a bunch of experience under your belt. lol, nice pun, under the belt.

Anyways, it's not a lifestyle for a family. The girl that was being molested in my neighborhood used to show me pictures of her mom fucking other men and she would say that's not my dad, she said, I take showers with my dad then she would take me in the closet and do nasty things to me. They were swingers and her dad a pedophile, her mom was a hairdresser so whatever you do, don't become a hairdresser either.

When a women get's with a man that is open to so much sexuality, it opens the doors to a lot more sinister stuff and I don't think having children around is a good idea. This also happens to families that don't do that sort of thing but it's so important to end up with a man that isn't lustful or just beyond normal.

Get it out of your system, please don't settle down with a freak.

Happyrainbow
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#76
It's a delicate balance.

I treasure your wisdom.

I will be careful who I choose to be with...

I am actually doing much better these days with my sexuality.

It's not as intense or hardcore...

Now I just think of men in terms of reproduction.

As I've been saying lately, I'm torn about the reproduction topic and leaning toward it being a bad idea, and I get a lot of flack for that opinion, it seems!
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#77
It would appear that my biological clock started ticking in my 26th year, because that was the first time I ever thought babies were cute (I saw one at the store and I couldn't get over the adorable). I started thinking I wanted to have a babychild someday. Then suddenly I didn't see men as just for the act of sex... it became about whether or not I would want their babychild.

Ever since then, shit has been different. I can't lie, it's a relief that is very foreign to me... the subsiding of that soul sucking sexual desire.
God made me funky...
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#78
(05-08-2017, 01:04 PM)Trix It would appear that my biological clock started ticking in my 26th year, because that was the first time I ever thought babies were cute (I saw one at the store and I couldn't get over the adorable). I started thinking I wanted to have a babychild someday. Then suddenly I didn't see men as just for the act of sex... it became about whether or not I would want their babychild.

Ever since then, shit has been different. I can't lie, it's a relief that is very foreign to me... the subsiding of that soul sucking sexual desire.

How much was the baby at the store?

Tongue
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#79
ROFLMAO I knew somebody would say some shit like that...

Banana
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#80
That feeling doesn't go away,  they are the most fun when you have 100% control over their movement, after that meh.
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