SECTUAL

Total dealbreaker...

Smile, nod, and totally write off anybody you hear utter these words.

90% of people who say this will be male...

If you're a dude, do not say these words to a woman...

Unless she's a total hobag, she will not want to be with you (ever).

It's fine to feel that way, but just don't say it.

Very unattractive.

Over the years I have heard a handful of dudes say these words...

Each time, I noted my instant response to the statement, and it was not good...

Instant rejection...

Not only romantically, but as a person too.

This is one of those things it's fine to say in a group of other men... but certainly make sure it won't leave the room.

It's fine to enjoy the "thrill of the chase" but if you live by this, it's unwise...

It's an imbalance and unhealthy, and there are likely past mental/emotional traumas to blame...

Best to find the reasons behind the behaviors and sort those out.

Its like chasing a kitty cat and getting all scratched up is part of the fun!