(10-04-2021, 10:58 AM)Chatwoman Wrote: [ -> ]They may be speaking English or whatever language they have in common...
The words may have set meanings which have been agreed upon for hundreds of years...
But they aren't speaking the same language.
Not even in the most basic interactions.
Maybe it's not just men and women, maybe it's everyone...
Could be an individual thing.
But I think this is particularly true for men and women.
80 percent of language between humans is body language. 10 percent is the 'tone' you're speaking in and the remaining 10 percent are literal meanings of sentences.
80 percent of the body, unable to lie unless trained, unable to be hidden unless trained.
Most men don't study body language, esp for females ((( )))) concentrating on the 20 percent, half of which are words not expressing the true intention.
For instance a man may be having a fight with his wife over bills.
They are using the word "bills" a lot and arguing in an angry 'tone.'
That's 20 percent of a "show"
The REAL 80 percent truth is she is showing him she's sexually available and begging him to fuck her
but he can't see that. He's focusing on the words and the tone. Emotion is over riding liquid logic.
It's not hard to see why there's a problem.
Also, it will be worse with people raised on computers without a lot of socialization.
That is, responding to body cues, sometimes. Depends on the amount of isolation obviously.
Reading ONLY body language may drive you nuts though. It's like hearing people's thoughts.
You don't want everyone's thoughts in your brain so being on that level only isn't good for more
than short bursts.
No one is telling the truth when speaking or typing. They are telling "A" truth sometimes
But, there are primary protocols being ran in the background totaling less than five.
Five primary branching out to subroutines ran by logic in the lower brain at the base.
If you get stuck in body language land, focus on the sound and word's meaning despite
what their body is asking or telling.
Can you imagine being body language speaking/reading only? You'd get in big trouble I imagine as
well as go past many personal barriers in speech and physical action.
Knowing how to speak/read it comes in handy in certain situations and in life generally.
It works for or against animals as well. Dogs are excellent at reading human body language.
knowing the language of the predator will repel a dog unless it's trained or rabid.
It's more than an emulation of human emotion and behavior. Dogs personalities are usually like their
human masters'.
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