I'ma just say it.
Everyone's heard about it now, y'all can dial it back.
Everybody knows now.
Y'all done did your job.
And hey thanks for real but, yeah just...
That's enough.
It fucked up one of my relationships youtube recommended 1 video on narcs then all my feed was all about narcs.
And the girl I was seeing at the time I started thinking she was a narc and she wasn't :( And im abusing her saying oh yeah right narc go get more supply.
It was stupid I had go reset all me shit and block channels fucked my life up.
Some people have complex psych issues that can resemble a Narc but are not one
I know this now but to late thanks google (They are psycho narcs).
I'm glad all those videos were there when I needed them. It ain't all bad.
No I absolutely agree with you, the whole conversation needed to happen.
One hundred fucking percent.
It's nice to see videos from actual doctors...
Not that you gotta be a doctor to talk about this issue, I'm not saying that.
But their info is definitely very refined and well delivered without and woo-woo kinda shit.
I don't watch his videos because he rambles too much. I like videos where the presenter sticks to a short and sweet script.
I actually don't watch videos about narcissistic abusers at all anymore. I know enough about them now to spot and avoid them.
If the woo-woo type of shit you're referring to is stuff like describing narcissism as demon possession, I think it's an apt description. I don't think Jung would've balked at the use of such imagery.
I dunno if he mentioned the part where the narcissist "baby traps" their supply so that their source will always be legally and otherwise obligated to contact with them due to having their child.
The worst thing you can ever do to yourself and to the unborn is to have a child with a narcissist.
The second worst thing you can ever do is to let your child be anywhere near a narcissist.
What really gets me is these channels with people claiming THEY are a narcissist and trying to give you insight into their behavior, reasons, etc. and I just laugh...
They're not narcissists.
Know why?
Cuz a narcissist would never admit they're a narcissist.
That said, I do appreciate the honesty on their part...
What they don't realize is that they're just doing what most people aren't willing to do...
They're just being honest about how manipulative and selfish people truly are.
So props to 'em...
But narcissists they are not.