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This isn't an issue in a lot of cases with men though. Primarily the biggest factor is age. I am unlikely to see a man under 30 as a father figure at all, therefore I rarely find them attractive.

The problem comes in regarding behavior. Does he listen to gangster rap? Not a father figure. Is he irresponsible? Not a father figure. Does he even LOOK irresponsible? Not a father figure. It doesn't matter if he likes gangster rap and LOOKS responsible. It doesn't matter if he likes gangster rap and doesn't look responsible but IS totally responsible. Not attractive, not attractive.

Does he dress like shit? Not attractive. I like men who wear button up shirts and respectable looking pants. Not tight pants, not baggy pants. MANLY PANTS. Give me dad jeans. Give me dressy slacks. Don't be giving me shorts either, I hate shorts on men. Business casual. Pastors on weekdays. Never trendy, never sloven. No.

If you're a farmer, you can look kinda dirty though... that's hot.

Long sleeved button ups. That's an important distinction.

Short sleeved button ups are shit.

(07-07-2017, 12:16 AM)Trix Wrote: [ -> ]This isn't an issue in a lot of cases with men though. Primarily the biggest factor is age. I am unlikely to see a man under 30 as a father figure at all, therefore I rarely find them attractive.

The problem comes in regarding behavior. Does he listen to gangster rap? Not a father figure. Is he irresponsible? Not a father figure. Does he even LOOK irresponsible? Not a father figure. It doesn't matter if he likes gangster rap and LOOKS responsible. It doesn't matter if he likes gangster rap and doesn't look responsible but IS totally responsible. Not attractive, not attractive.

Does he dress like shit? Not attractive. I like men who wear button up shirts and respectable looking pants. Not tight pants, not baggy pants. MANLY PANTS. Give me dad jeans. Give me dressy slacks. Don't be giving me shorts either, I hate shorts on men. Business casual. Pastors on weekdays. Never trendy, never sloven. No.

If you're a farmer, you can look kinda dirty though... that's hot.

I think those are some pretty good guidelines! Who wants a slob? No one wants a fucking wigger either. LOL.

Trix, how to you think you came to always look for an older guy and a father figure?

see, she left us a sliver of hope with the dirty farmer comment , perhaps even a young gangster rapping farmer as long as she is plowed regularly and seeded , hold the fertilizer though