Have meaningless sex with.
Not a single person no matter how hot I thought they were.
Not a single person in the world you could put in front of me and say okay you can have sex tonight, or even many times over the course of a few weeks...
Not a single person I would have sex with under those conditions.
Because I am NOT willing to have sex without true promise of a possible longterm commitment.
I'm NOT and I WON'T.
There's no point in having sex without real devotion.
There has to be the honest intention of commitment.
I'm a patient person in this regard...
I don't care how long it takes. I don't care if it never happens.
What matters to me is standing for something, and defending the sanctity of my personal values.
(11-10-2017, 09:07 PM)Trix Wrote: [ -> ]Because I am NOT willing to have sex without true promise of a possible longterm commitment.
And that's just it...
Sometimes you get taken in by people.
Even if you've got the most well-honed BS radar...
It can happen.
But that's where NOT being promiscuous comes into play.
Because if you're not promiscuous, and it's a special thing when you get involved with someone...
Then you're still defending the sanctity of your values, even if some of your involvements don't work out for whatever reason.
At least you have the foundation of standards which are there to make sure you don't get involved in anything that doesn't seem genuinely promising.
You can't ever truly know what's in another person's heart...
You can't ever truly know if someone is actually going to be devoted to you.
It's a real bitch, the whole process...
You really gotta watch for red flags.
You have to really COMMUNICATE, before you ever get physically involved with someone.
You have to see how deep they can go, what's the true depth of their intellectual capability?
Are your emotions in synch, do you operate at the same kind of physical level?
Do they say anything that gives you a bad feeling, shit that could point to moral issues?
Do you fucking hate their sense of humor or just think it's stupid?
Do they fucking annoy you, already?
Because all of that stuff is immeasurably important and red flags cannot be ignored, especially just because you think somebody's hot, or you 'want' it to work out for whatever reason.
Because one's own intentions have to be clearly examined when it comes to this...
If we aren't honest with ourselves about WHAT we see in people, WHY we like it and want to pursue them, then we're doomed to fall into traps that, worst of all, we basically set up for ourselves.
Do things for the right reason...
Do the right thing.
Dude would you prefer a lisp or a stutter
(11-10-2017, 09:22 PM)Kenny Wrote: [ -> ]Dude would you prefer a lisp or a stutter
I think both are pretty hot.
Some might say "Well how is it meaningless if you love them, but they don't feel the same way about you?"
ROFL, and to that I would reply, don't be a loser.
If someone doesn't at least match your output...
Meaning, if they don't RECIPROCATE those feelings...
Then have some self respect and stay the fuck away from them.
I don't do that one-sided love BS, and if I pursue someone who shows they're not interested, I do not waste my time on them.
Nobody should fuck around with unequal levels in romantic relationships. Both people should feel the passion and if they don't, then don't bother.