If your wife/girlfriend gets fat, it's because she doesn't love you anymore...

[Guest]

I don't know why women would become pregnant on purpose...

I think about half of pregnancies are accidental and the other half planned. At least that was the case several years ago.

[Guest]

I've known several women in my life who desperately wanted children. I'm a little older though, close to 50. It's not uncommon now for young women to say they don't want kids. That was almost unheard of 20-30 years ago. Maybe the social pressures were worse then? Religion? If you told a woman you didn't want kids then, that was a total deal breaker. I had almost resigned myself to never getting married or having a long term relationship when I was in my early 20's. I remember telling a girl I was dating that I thought babies were gross and ugly, you could just see the light go off! She went on to have 4 kids and marry/divorce 3 times. Now she's poor and miserable. LOL!

[somethingelseishere]

I don't know why women would become pregnant on purpose...

Unless the rumors about women reproducing just for welfare are actually true.

Trust me, I've seen it first-hand. Up close and personal.
As close as neighbors. Next-door and doors-away. It's real.
And it sucks! 99% of the time EVERY last damn one of them
little shits grow up to be very poorly-behaved children.

They're not family; they're a means to an end.
I'm no Eugenicist but... I mean, c'mon!

[Mister Obvious]

She went on to have 4 kids and marry/divorce 3 times. Now she's poor and miserable. LOL!

Well first of all it's never okay to laugh at someone's "poorness" and "misery"...

Secondly, it's totally normal for women (and humans) to want to have children.

Anything OTHERWISE is societal brainwashing. Not the other way around.

If you think it's funny that someone is poor and miserable, I am glad you never reproduced.

You woman haters need to make up your mind...

Are women who don't want to have children a scourge, or is it the women who DO want children??

Or is it just all the women? Looks like it's just all the women and they're damned regardless...

You should blame your own mom for fucking up your head instead of all the other women out there.

It was her fault, not theirs. If you say she didn't fuck up your head, it was definitely some other prominent female in your life during your formative years, and if you can't admit to any of them...

Then you are not being honest with yourself.

If you told a woman you didn't want kids then, that was a total deal breaker.

I think bringing children into the world especially in this day and age is a horrible idea for too many reasons to list, both personal and with regards to society/the state of the world, so on and so forth. But even feeling that way, I become almost completely disinterested in a man (romantically) if he expresses serious dislike of children or can't/won't have any.

[Mister Obvious]

Trust me, I've seen it first-hand. Up close and personal.
As close as neighbors. Next-door and doors-away. It's real.
And it sucks! 99% of the time EVERY last damn one of them
little shits grow up to be very poorly-behaved children.

They're not family; they're a means to an end.
I'm no Eugenicist but... I mean, c'mon!

Yikes!!!

[somethingelseishere]

First of all, I love the way you phrased and worded this entire post...

I think we all need to take a damn moment to appreciate this.

Agreed! I particularly loved the "monkey launcher" description. Top tier!

[Mister Obvious]

ROFL, right!?!

[Guest]

Sperm banks and in vitro fertilization also suggest that many want to have children on purpose.

[Guest]

Agreed! I particularly loved the "monkey launcher" description. Top tier!

Glad you guys enjoyed it!

[Guest]

But even feeling that way, I become almost completely disinterested in a man (romantically) if he expresses serious dislike of children or can't/won't have any.

That's totally understandable and normal.

[Mister Obvious]

Sperm banks and in vitro fertilization also suggest that many want to have children on purpose.

Oh nah, what I mean is having children on purpose just to trap or use somebody like we were talking about with the welfare thing a minute ago.

Obviously people want to have children on purpose, LOL! I should have clarified!

[Ikhthyes]

Now come on Ikhth, you know women don't care about mens' looks.

That's news to me tho... in my experience anyway, women do care..just maybe not as much as men do. Women do find fit bodies attractive and gush allover "pretty boys" on Instagram. And in my life too, I legit sensed my woman's attraction to me increasing when I got fit, versus when I was stick skinny. The sex was better too. And she even told me....not straight up "you need to put on weight" but more convoluted apropos. Maybe it's confirmation bias? 

Or maybe it could be just my case? To be honest I look at older pics of myself and just cringe. I think being skinny is ok when you are on the shorter side, but a really skinny and really tall guy with really long dangly arms and really long chicken legs just looks ...not good at all heh. Maybe it's not applicable not everyone but in my case I think it did make a difference.

[Mister Obvious]

Yeah I agree, I like my dudes meaty.

I'd rather my men be fat than too thin.

So basically whatever is the norm for how men feel about women, it's the exact opposite for how women feel about men.

Talked about this recently...

"Ugly dudes are way better off than ugly chicks"
https://www.sectual.com/thread-16718.html

[Mister Obvious]

I think it's important to bear in mind that you might be a great dude who's done nothing wrong, or at least basically nothing...

I'm sure most dudes are decent, at least to the highest degree they're capable of...

In all likelihood, it's just not your fault that she doesn't love you anymore.

[Mister Obvious]

For some of the douchebag assholes out there though, yes it is your fault and you do deserve it.

That's just probably not most men.

[Mister Obvious]

I'd say that MOST of the time, when someone falls out of love with you...

It's because of them, not you.

[Guest]

Secondly, it's totally normal for women (and humans) to want to have children.

Anything OTHERWISE is societal brainwashing. Not the other way around.

What if your mom was married and divorced 3 times by the time you were 16? What if your dad was currently on his 7th wife? What if your first stepdad cheated on your mom with your 16 year old cousin? I didn't need society to brainwash me. I saw all the stupidity and disfunction humans could muster before reaching 18.

[Mister Obvious]

Heyzus Christos!!!

Gross!!!

[Mister Obvious]

Ahahahahaha oh my GOD man.

Well...

Shit.

[Mister Obvious]

Didn't expect that.