It's not REALLY about looks, it's about the way you treat people...

[Mister Obvious]

Especially in romantic relationships...

Are you a relief at the end of the day, or are you a total cunt?

That's what determines whether someone will want to stick with you or not.

9 times out of 10.

[Dreamz]

Pretty much nailed that shit

[Mister Obvious]

I've seen and heard about women treating men like total shit when they get home from work...

That's when you need to be THE MOST supportive.

Even when they just come home from being with their friends and whatnot...

The treatment they receive upon returning home is incredibly important.

Why would a man ever want to be with you (regardless of what you look like) when he comes home from work or from having fun, and you treat him like complete shit?

Or if you just treat him like shit in general... you can be a supermodel, he will begin to resent you and the relationship just won't last. It'll turn into total hell, until somebody finally has the balls to end it.

Be KIND.

To EVERYONE.

[Guest]

no wonder so many people live alone now , its just not worth it when there are so many ego maniacs out there

deal with a little loneliness or become a doormat

[anscochrome]

Develop a talent away from your bread and butter, and loneliness does not become an issue. Or simply do something that keeps you from thinking about yourself all the time, like pitching in to help someone out with service (a trick used by A.A. to help people not be morbidly self obsessed, and thus turning to substance for relief). A small group of strong friends (2 or three) is better than a very large group of barely say hello acquaintances. So yes, you can cope living alone, without bitterness or resentment.

[user94]

There is no one way with that stuff its millions of ways sub atomic ways so many ways infinite ways.