There are some things that are an instant dealbreaker/turn-off...

[Mister Obvious]

No matter how hot you are.

No matter how smart you are.

No matter how successful you are.

Some things...

Are just not dismissible.

And yes, it's unfortunate.

And yes, it is a product of a broken society.

[user94]

Like what? Im sure these are different for different people though.

[Mister Obvious]

If I hear somebody's got a history of attempting suicide... total turn off, total dealbreaker.

If I hear a man describe himself as anything but heterosexual, absolute turn off and total dealbreaker.

If I see dudes wearing skinny jeans, absolute complete and total turn off and almost inevitably a dealbreaker (I've seen some pretty attractive non-gay dudes wearing that shit and man I'd hate to say 'never' about some of them).

If you harp on certain body types or physical attributes and betray yourself as a superficial person, I am completely turned off and it's a total dealbreaker.

If you're an ACTUAL racist... dealbreaker.

If you're promiscuous... dealbreaker. One exception would be older dudes who ran around a lot when they were younger but have calmed down... I've known some formerly slutty older dudes who I'd consider acceptable.

There are plenty of others but that's all I'll bother with for now.

[Guest]

I dont see anal on her list...thats a relief