05-02-2020, 11:41 AM
Damn babe, that´s one cynical way to look at marriage... but pretty funny too 
Now there´s several issues with this...what do you mean when you say fat? 10 pounds overweight? 30? Like what celebrity would be at the beginning of the fat spectrum?
I think up to 20 pounds overweight you´re still not fat, if you started from a normal weight.
If I was married and my wife got too fat to be attractive, I´d probably get her a a gym membership or buy her gym equipment if she doesn´t like public gyms, I´d get her a nutritionist, I´d get her a personal trainer, I´d get her in food therapy (does such a thing even exists? I think it should) and if she just refused to take any help and get herself to a normal healthy weight ...with the risk of coming across sexist, I don´t think I could be with her anymore.
It´s not even about looking fat, but having an unhealthy lifestyle... I just find that shit disgusting and won´t be able to cope living with it for too long.
But I would probably invest a good couple years into trying to help her overcome her weight problem before I would say ok this is enough for me.
Now there´s several issues with this...what do you mean when you say fat? 10 pounds overweight? 30? Like what celebrity would be at the beginning of the fat spectrum?
I think up to 20 pounds overweight you´re still not fat, if you started from a normal weight.
If I was married and my wife got too fat to be attractive, I´d probably get her a a gym membership or buy her gym equipment if she doesn´t like public gyms, I´d get her a nutritionist, I´d get her a personal trainer, I´d get her in food therapy (does such a thing even exists? I think it should) and if she just refused to take any help and get herself to a normal healthy weight ...with the risk of coming across sexist, I don´t think I could be with her anymore.
It´s not even about looking fat, but having an unhealthy lifestyle... I just find that shit disgusting and won´t be able to cope living with it for too long.
But I would probably invest a good couple years into trying to help her overcome her weight problem before I would say ok this is enough for me.
