05-06-2020, 03:56 PM
Like when your kid grows up and they're just totally fucked in the head and do weird fucked up embarrassing shit and make you wonder what the fuck went wrong.
It's sad as shit man...
I've been seeing all these examples lately of why it's best not to reproduce. For real. I'm seeing a lot of just... sad, unfortunate, even sort of nightmarish examples of how parents can be great, or at least fine, and their kids just turn out a total fucked up mess.
And for these fucked up kids/adults, it's sad as well. I'm not trying to invalidate whatever they went through (cuz come on, trauma/abuse is probably responsible a solid 80% of the time, not even by the hands of the parents, could be by anyone)...
But still, they're just heinous embarrassments and even worse, it's got to be devastating as a parent to see that happen and to think "That kid was just a mistake." Though it's taboo to admit those kinda things and they'd probably never say it because admitting your kid is a failure is like admitting part of you is a failure, and they're just sort of a tainted part of your bloodline. Worst of all would be if they were your only child.
It's sad as shit man...
I've been seeing all these examples lately of why it's best not to reproduce. For real. I'm seeing a lot of just... sad, unfortunate, even sort of nightmarish examples of how parents can be great, or at least fine, and their kids just turn out a total fucked up mess.
And for these fucked up kids/adults, it's sad as well. I'm not trying to invalidate whatever they went through (cuz come on, trauma/abuse is probably responsible a solid 80% of the time, not even by the hands of the parents, could be by anyone)...
But still, they're just heinous embarrassments and even worse, it's got to be devastating as a parent to see that happen and to think "That kid was just a mistake." Though it's taboo to admit those kinda things and they'd probably never say it because admitting your kid is a failure is like admitting part of you is a failure, and they're just sort of a tainted part of your bloodline. Worst of all would be if they were your only child.