05-06-2020, 11:08 PM
(05-06-2020, 10:12 PM)Guest Wrote: He is lost in himself. Trouble is guys like this are so damn stubborn they don't take advice .They are intelligent but that like everything has its limits. Is he wrapped up in existentialism? Best advice for him is just 'get stupid' but he would scoff .
Yes. Totally agree. He needs a Ray road map to his county line, haha.
He's obviously no dummy, but sometimes intelligence [especially coupled
with over-thinking] can really work against a person and their best interests.
I too think he just needs to let go for a while. Do that George Costanza thing
where he adopts an "opposite day" life approach, even if for just a week.
Everything he would normally do, just do the exact opposite. Worked for George!
But it was a TV show, haha. Still, it would probably shatter at least a couple
boundaries for him, even if just in the short term. And since he's self-admittedly
"desperate" then he ought to be up for nearly anything! Go for it, Ray!!
