01-19-2021, 11:53 AM
Zane isn't a horrible dude. I've known much worse people than Zane. He is just trying to survive...
As he said in one of his recent streams, he took on a girlfriend for a year for the sake of survival.
That's not to say that he wasn't nice to her, that's not to say he didn't massage her feet and do whatever she demanded him to.
But he did use up a year of her life having gotten together only to survive. I mean, think about that from her perspective. Kinda hurtful really.
Then again her intentions were probably not the highest of purity either... she was with him for lust basically. She knew he was married, she went for him anyway (on the advice of a friend) etc. So she wasn't totally blameless but... at the end of the day, her time was more valuable than his, as a woman in her 30s. He used up a year she could have spent trying to find the right person to reproduce with before her reproductive life is over... as a note to Zane, you simply cannot do that to people, bro. It's just wrong.
And so any type of personal feelings/professions of such feelings from someone like Zane cannot be taken too seriously. For example, Zane has always seen me as someone who might raise his kids (I have no idea how he could look at me and the way I behave and draw such a conclusion, but whatever)... so everything that he says to me is geared with that eventual goal in mind. It's not about me. It's not that he loves or even likes me... it's that he thinks I could take care of his children. And there are only about 10 years left for anyone to take care of his children before they're adults... it sounds like a long time, but it's really not. They're going to be fine. I don't blame him for trying to sniff out an acceptable female to take care of his kids, but it sure ain't me.
Zane would do better to think of me as a female version of himself (albeit a lot more inhibited and a lot less daring)... I am much too self-involved to be dealing with children, just don't want to at all. My own (which I don't have) or anyone else's... well it just doesn't interest me. Suffice it to say, it's not something I'd do if I had the choice.
So I wish Zane well, but his kids will be fine. They'll be taken care of, they'll grow up fine, and they'll probably need him more when they ARE grown up. What he can do is just stop behaving in damaging ways on camera which they're gonna see, and at least one will model their life after. Be responsible.
As for me, I am in my final reproductive decade just like his 'convenience girlfriend' was, and I know the seriousness of that frame of time... I am not fucking around, and I am certainly not going to be brainwashed into raising children who aren't even mine when there's just nothing in it for me whatsoever. Almost no one is up for that... and if they are, they're probably too good to be with an extremely selfish individual like Zane, or even a moderately selfish individual like me.
I dunno, maybe at the end of the day I should take it as a compliment that someone would trust me to raise their children... that's very nice. So I'll take the compliment and move along.
As he said in one of his recent streams, he took on a girlfriend for a year for the sake of survival.
That's not to say that he wasn't nice to her, that's not to say he didn't massage her feet and do whatever she demanded him to.
But he did use up a year of her life having gotten together only to survive. I mean, think about that from her perspective. Kinda hurtful really.
Then again her intentions were probably not the highest of purity either... she was with him for lust basically. She knew he was married, she went for him anyway (on the advice of a friend) etc. So she wasn't totally blameless but... at the end of the day, her time was more valuable than his, as a woman in her 30s. He used up a year she could have spent trying to find the right person to reproduce with before her reproductive life is over... as a note to Zane, you simply cannot do that to people, bro. It's just wrong.
And so any type of personal feelings/professions of such feelings from someone like Zane cannot be taken too seriously. For example, Zane has always seen me as someone who might raise his kids (I have no idea how he could look at me and the way I behave and draw such a conclusion, but whatever)... so everything that he says to me is geared with that eventual goal in mind. It's not about me. It's not that he loves or even likes me... it's that he thinks I could take care of his children. And there are only about 10 years left for anyone to take care of his children before they're adults... it sounds like a long time, but it's really not. They're going to be fine. I don't blame him for trying to sniff out an acceptable female to take care of his kids, but it sure ain't me.
Zane would do better to think of me as a female version of himself (albeit a lot more inhibited and a lot less daring)... I am much too self-involved to be dealing with children, just don't want to at all. My own (which I don't have) or anyone else's... well it just doesn't interest me. Suffice it to say, it's not something I'd do if I had the choice.
So I wish Zane well, but his kids will be fine. They'll be taken care of, they'll grow up fine, and they'll probably need him more when they ARE grown up. What he can do is just stop behaving in damaging ways on camera which they're gonna see, and at least one will model their life after. Be responsible.
As for me, I am in my final reproductive decade just like his 'convenience girlfriend' was, and I know the seriousness of that frame of time... I am not fucking around, and I am certainly not going to be brainwashed into raising children who aren't even mine when there's just nothing in it for me whatsoever. Almost no one is up for that... and if they are, they're probably too good to be with an extremely selfish individual like Zane, or even a moderately selfish individual like me.
I dunno, maybe at the end of the day I should take it as a compliment that someone would trust me to raise their children... that's very nice. So I'll take the compliment and move along.
