03-13-2022, 06:44 PM
(03-10-2022, 11:11 PM)Chatwoman Wrote: She should bear another one herself before she's 40 though.
After finding out she had nerve issues and hemorrhaging, I would advise against having another one with her own body...
Usually the nerve issue and the hemorrhaging are indicators that in nature (before medical intervention became possible), you would die in childbirth if you even made it that far.
That's the case with some women...
Thank God for modern medicine, but in the same token, those kinda things are sort of a sign.
Even if the bond with the newest baby isn't necessarily the most naturally clicking, I wouldn't have another one the old fashioned way.
I've known women who didn't have a great connection right out of the gate with their natural born babies, and it's especially common in the case of colic. Unfortunately it can just be very hard.
Your babies are people, and just like anything else, you're just not gonna click with everybody.
If I was Grimes, I'd sacrifice that whole bond strength thingy for the surrogate method if I wanted more kids in the future.
