07-12-2022, 09:40 PM
Do I think Leah is probably controlling as fuck and micromanaging the shit out of Rich's life? Absofuckinlutely.
Do I think there's a better relationship dynamic for him out there, or a better partner? Hell no.
And that's not a judgement on Rich, he deserves all the best... but I personally don't believe in love whatsoever, I think it's all co-dependency and people need to learn to thrive ALONE, and then invite someone in to share their life with (if they want to), AFTER they've achieved that.
Rich and Leah, although they're not always super likeable people in my opinion, ARE a good couple, they DO make a sweet family, and in general, I think they're living their most successful lives as a unit.
Boundaries though... boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.
And Rich needs male friends (REAL MEN, not a bunch of weirdos and no YouTube echo-chamber fuckers) who are strong, HEALTHY, purpose driven people with GOOD successful lives... kept separate from his family and his homelife.
He needs Leah watching out for any signs that he's not doing okay... his past can't be forgotten and swept under the rug like it never happened. His situation will always have to be handled with mindful care.
If all of that can fall into place and be maintained, I think they'll have a great life.
I'd be trying to get a backup career plan together though... that's the thing. In that other video, Leah said she volunteers at an animal shelter, so it doesn't sound like she brings in that much income. If it's all riding on Rich, they need a backup plan in case the day comes that he can't stand the tarot situation anymore. Besides, his whole following is on YouTube, and we know how flighty that platform can be.
All the eggs in one basket is never a good plan... diversify.
Do I think there's a better relationship dynamic for him out there, or a better partner? Hell no.
And that's not a judgement on Rich, he deserves all the best... but I personally don't believe in love whatsoever, I think it's all co-dependency and people need to learn to thrive ALONE, and then invite someone in to share their life with (if they want to), AFTER they've achieved that.
Rich and Leah, although they're not always super likeable people in my opinion, ARE a good couple, they DO make a sweet family, and in general, I think they're living their most successful lives as a unit.
Boundaries though... boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.
And Rich needs male friends (REAL MEN, not a bunch of weirdos and no YouTube echo-chamber fuckers) who are strong, HEALTHY, purpose driven people with GOOD successful lives... kept separate from his family and his homelife.
He needs Leah watching out for any signs that he's not doing okay... his past can't be forgotten and swept under the rug like it never happened. His situation will always have to be handled with mindful care.
If all of that can fall into place and be maintained, I think they'll have a great life.
I'd be trying to get a backup career plan together though... that's the thing. In that other video, Leah said she volunteers at an animal shelter, so it doesn't sound like she brings in that much income. If it's all riding on Rich, they need a backup plan in case the day comes that he can't stand the tarot situation anymore. Besides, his whole following is on YouTube, and we know how flighty that platform can be.
All the eggs in one basket is never a good plan... diversify.
