That's why I think you really have to give people a lot of room in romantic relationships...
Give room for freedom and choice. It's better for someone to leave you than to only stick around because they don't want to hurt you BY leaving. When people feel free to do whatever, they don't have to waste a lot of your time and theirs mulling over moving on.
Jealousy is bad, and especially when you're young, it's hard not to have those feelings. Eventually though, you gotta grow out of it. The next step is learning to not care that much whether you're going to get dumped for somebody else or even on the small end of the spectrum, if your partner thinks somebody else is hot as fuck.
You have to be a realist about relationships. Of course your partner is gonna think other people are hot as fuck, especially after you've been together for a while. Who fricken cares?? They'll either stay with you or they won't, or you'll get to make them feel like total shit and dump them for cheating on you if you find out.
You gotta be cool about it... just let it all happen. Don't be so possessive over people. People should be free... if their loyalty isn't heartfelt, why would you ever want it? And I also think that if things change and someone says they want out, there shouldn't be any hurt feelings because at least they were honest and didn't drag things on.
Immediate honesty is the best policy. Openness. Freedom.
Give room for freedom and choice. It's better for someone to leave you than to only stick around because they don't want to hurt you BY leaving. When people feel free to do whatever, they don't have to waste a lot of your time and theirs mulling over moving on.
Jealousy is bad, and especially when you're young, it's hard not to have those feelings. Eventually though, you gotta grow out of it. The next step is learning to not care that much whether you're going to get dumped for somebody else or even on the small end of the spectrum, if your partner thinks somebody else is hot as fuck.
You have to be a realist about relationships. Of course your partner is gonna think other people are hot as fuck, especially after you've been together for a while. Who fricken cares?? They'll either stay with you or they won't, or you'll get to make them feel like total shit and dump them for cheating on you if you find out.
You gotta be cool about it... just let it all happen. Don't be so possessive over people. People should be free... if their loyalty isn't heartfelt, why would you ever want it? And I also think that if things change and someone says they want out, there shouldn't be any hurt feelings because at least they were honest and didn't drag things on.
Immediate honesty is the best policy. Openness. Freedom.
