Its not love its obsession vs balance. All those memories which become thoughts which become feelings and emotions.
Nothing you can do about them but accept them and "try" to remain in the present.
If they gave you a book on this as a kid people wouldn't become so obsessed with themselves, others, or their lives.
Love is abandonment and self consumed.
A bird will watch its life partner be squished on the road, and just go find another bird. (I have seen this)
Hominids are more complicated though, like chimpanzees removed from their mothers at an early age.
Often become violent or withdrawn. Hominids love their car so much they will beat the shit out of someone so bad.
They will end up in prison just because someone scratched it.
Just fix the scratch cos now you have no car.
Nothing you can do about them but accept them and "try" to remain in the present.
If they gave you a book on this as a kid people wouldn't become so obsessed with themselves, others, or their lives.
Love is abandonment and self consumed.
A bird will watch its life partner be squished on the road, and just go find another bird. (I have seen this)
Hominids are more complicated though, like chimpanzees removed from their mothers at an early age.
Often become violent or withdrawn. Hominids love their car so much they will beat the shit out of someone so bad.
They will end up in prison just because someone scratched it.
Just fix the scratch cos now you have no car.