If at any point in time it makes you feel like shit...

[elaine]

ye, that's the kind of bullshit spread by our individualistic societies, the self is unknowable but we're constantly under the impression it can be known by picking some vague constructs offered to us in the endless identity catalogue, the idea of knowledge is a distraction, only when you've no need to ever know something unknowable will occur somehow somewhere, everything else, just plain bullshit, folks