It's about getting shot up with that baby batter.
The idea is that you find a man who is at least not morally repugnant to you, has good qualities which you'd like to see more of in the world, and hopefully you feel love for him which isn't tainted by any idiotic and thoughtless offenses he commits.
You give him time to prove exactly who he is, you heed red flags if you see them. You decide whether or not he really is desirable for reproduction.
You should dig him, think he's great, should be able to feel proud of him because he stands for something or at least isn't a piece of shit...
And then the idea is to HAVE HIS BABY.
After that...
The deed is basically done.
By way of your body, his version 2.0 has been delivered into the world.
The upgrade.
The improvement.
The version with the fusion of qualities.
The child is the summation of everything he was before and up til the moment it was conceived...
Whatever he goes on to do after that, who cares? Be it good or bad.
If it's good, you can be even more proud of him as the father of the child.
If it's bad, well that's not who you chose to reproduce with. Because if you did it RIGHT, you chose a man with all the upstanding qualities, no dealbreakers, at least no kind of behavior that was unfavorable was ever exhibited before the point you decided to conceive. You took an HONEST look at it, an honest assessment before you decided to go all in.
So it's not your problem what he goes on to do... as long as he was respectable at the time you chose to reproduce with him, nothing should tarnish the feelings about the past, or your feelings about the child.
It's ALL about reproduction. The concept of togetherness and foreverness is the bait.
The idea is that you find a man who is at least not morally repugnant to you, has good qualities which you'd like to see more of in the world, and hopefully you feel love for him which isn't tainted by any idiotic and thoughtless offenses he commits.
You give him time to prove exactly who he is, you heed red flags if you see them. You decide whether or not he really is desirable for reproduction.
You should dig him, think he's great, should be able to feel proud of him because he stands for something or at least isn't a piece of shit...
And then the idea is to HAVE HIS BABY.
After that...
The deed is basically done.
By way of your body, his version 2.0 has been delivered into the world.
The upgrade.
The improvement.
The version with the fusion of qualities.
The child is the summation of everything he was before and up til the moment it was conceived...
Whatever he goes on to do after that, who cares? Be it good or bad.
If it's good, you can be even more proud of him as the father of the child.
If it's bad, well that's not who you chose to reproduce with. Because if you did it RIGHT, you chose a man with all the upstanding qualities, no dealbreakers, at least no kind of behavior that was unfavorable was ever exhibited before the point you decided to conceive. You took an HONEST look at it, an honest assessment before you decided to go all in.
So it's not your problem what he goes on to do... as long as he was respectable at the time you chose to reproduce with him, nothing should tarnish the feelings about the past, or your feelings about the child.
It's ALL about reproduction. The concept of togetherness and foreverness is the bait.
