11-11-2017, 06:47 PM
And this is a process that the woman must carry through for an unknown period of time...
The babychild has to be given undivided attention in the formative years.
Then past babyhood, the offspring has to be instilled with values which will ensure that they make good choices.
They have to be guided up until the point wherein it's possible they may be ready to start their own journey into reproduction.
So this is a process which, for the woman, encompasses MANY years.
The reason the process must be seen through successfully is because the goal is to drive the man's offspring to stay true to the original principles which were responsible for the choice of reproducing in the first place.
That is not to say the offspring is to be modeled exactly after their father, or to constantly have the idea of their father hanging over their head. Their own independence and individuality must be cultivated and encouraged.
Because the mother should KNOW, secretly to herself, that the whole reason to carry through the process to success is to maintain that legacy. Therefore she should know the covert methods to use in order to instill the essence of the principles of the father into the child during the formative years. Sort of like "mind control", but the good kind. Skillful teaching is really what it is.
This can be achieved without outrightly admitting that it all has to do with the father. This shouldn't be directly admitted because it can interfere with the purposeful programming of the offspring, which is put in place to ensure the successful perpetuation of the legacy.
And it also must be kept in mind, particularly later in the offspring's formative years, that there is a certain level of individuality and personal expression that is to be expected. None of that is a failure, even if it goes off track. Because one can only do their absolute best to nurture and instill the good qualities and intentions... the rest is up to fate, and that is where the 'issues' with the babychild/relationship can come into play. But again, there is a lot of reward in doing one's best to raise a babychild born of legacy, so it can never be as disappointing as fruitless romantic relationships are.
The babychild has to be given undivided attention in the formative years.
Then past babyhood, the offspring has to be instilled with values which will ensure that they make good choices.
They have to be guided up until the point wherein it's possible they may be ready to start their own journey into reproduction.
So this is a process which, for the woman, encompasses MANY years.
The reason the process must be seen through successfully is because the goal is to drive the man's offspring to stay true to the original principles which were responsible for the choice of reproducing in the first place.
That is not to say the offspring is to be modeled exactly after their father, or to constantly have the idea of their father hanging over their head. Their own independence and individuality must be cultivated and encouraged.
Because the mother should KNOW, secretly to herself, that the whole reason to carry through the process to success is to maintain that legacy. Therefore she should know the covert methods to use in order to instill the essence of the principles of the father into the child during the formative years. Sort of like "mind control", but the good kind. Skillful teaching is really what it is.
This can be achieved without outrightly admitting that it all has to do with the father. This shouldn't be directly admitted because it can interfere with the purposeful programming of the offspring, which is put in place to ensure the successful perpetuation of the legacy.
And it also must be kept in mind, particularly later in the offspring's formative years, that there is a certain level of individuality and personal expression that is to be expected. None of that is a failure, even if it goes off track. Because one can only do their absolute best to nurture and instill the good qualities and intentions... the rest is up to fate, and that is where the 'issues' with the babychild/relationship can come into play. But again, there is a lot of reward in doing one's best to raise a babychild born of legacy, so it can never be as disappointing as fruitless romantic relationships are.
