11-11-2017, 08:01 PM
Well, I have avoided the whole 'providing' aspect of the conversation because I have been fixated on more recent understandings.
The whole provider aspect has been discussed to oblivion by far more intelligent people than myself... there's not much I can offer that conversation.
Ideally, a man would want to stick around and raise the child, and ideally he would provide for the child materially. That's just the bottom line.
Now if he wants to do that, fine...
But if he wants to go out and get his dick wet in some new strange and knock up other women...
Well then he better have enough money to support his various progeny. If he does... there's no problem.
If he's earned the ability to support various children with various women...
That's a man to be proud of, and he's free to do what he wants.
Now as for me personally as it regards reproduction...
I am not sure I am even able to reproduce.
If I find out I am definitively unable to reproduce, I will just have to take care of other peoples' (abandoned) children, or adopt.
