12-27-2017, 10:26 PM
It's not insensitive...
But with you specifically, I entered this conversation assuming that you were totally abused as a child (by your father) and also realizing that it's entirely possible that you may not have been, and in fact perhaps your father was very nice to you and you had to suffer the trauma of watching him die in a terrible way (cancer, etc., who knows really?) maybe recently, or maybe not.
You see all the possibilities that could make me think maybe approaching the topic of your dad could be a touchy subject?
Because I was right about at least one thing... he did abuse you.
But with you specifically, I entered this conversation assuming that you were totally abused as a child (by your father) and also realizing that it's entirely possible that you may not have been, and in fact perhaps your father was very nice to you and you had to suffer the trauma of watching him die in a terrible way (cancer, etc., who knows really?) maybe recently, or maybe not.
You see all the possibilities that could make me think maybe approaching the topic of your dad could be a touchy subject?
Because I was right about at least one thing... he did abuse you.
