03-10-2018, 01:03 AM
(03-10-2018, 01:02 AM)lulwut Wrote: Yes. Maybe "determining factor" was the wrong choice of words. I guess what I'm getting at is: Why focus on the trauma instead of correcting the tendencies acquired as a result of the trauma? We can't change the past, only the future.
That works really well if you actually recognize the trauma...
I was just pondering something closely related to this today, but it doesn't belong on this thread.