09-20-2018, 05:47 PM
It works both ways.
If somebody isn't getting something they want in a relationship, they're gonna get it from somebody else.
Thing about kinks is there has to be a level of trust there, so it's an extra pain in the ass to get those needs met if your trusted partner isn't willing to do it.
I mean I'm sure there are some people out there who don't mind getting their masochistic needs met by a total stranger, but as for me...
I gotta know and trust a motherfucker.
If I'm in a relationship with you and you're not giving me the kinks then you're either being an asshole or a pussy...
Neither appeals to me.
Just don't be a pussy.
That's even worse than being an asshole.
If somebody isn't getting something they want in a relationship, they're gonna get it from somebody else.
Thing about kinks is there has to be a level of trust there, so it's an extra pain in the ass to get those needs met if your trusted partner isn't willing to do it.
I mean I'm sure there are some people out there who don't mind getting their masochistic needs met by a total stranger, but as for me...
I gotta know and trust a motherfucker.
If I'm in a relationship with you and you're not giving me the kinks then you're either being an asshole or a pussy...
Neither appeals to me.
Just don't be a pussy.
That's even worse than being an asshole.
