10-10-2018, 04:20 PM
(10-10-2018, 03:59 PM)Trix Wrote: Well said...I honestly don't understand how SHE can not see Zane's side of things. She seems to be filled up with bitter & hate. I'm not saying what Zane did is right but she had to of known how he handles heartache, pain. I don't want to be mean to anyone but she's making her own life unhappy over Zane leaving. Just like we all chose how we handle & react. I personally would be focusing on my kids, not what my husband did or didn't do...that's me though
So do I...
I just wish she would acknowledge that Zane is totally traumatized and is running because of fear and pain...
He doesn't know what else to do or how to handle it.
Of course you can say the way he's chosen to handle it sucks...
I'm not saying it's preferable, or good, or even acceptable.
I'm just saying, understand why he's doing it and what it feels like from his perspective...
He's really not having fun. He's just deeply hurt and trying to alleviate the pain.
In ways that will undoubtedly eventually kill him, and I don't think he cares.
And this is why he doesn't care
