11-24-2018, 03:17 PM
Guys don't often leave one relationship until they have another one securely in place. They're creatures of comfort in that way. They're not actually leaving one relationship & running straight to a new one: the relationships are often running concomitantly. They simply ease out of one into the other, and the side one becomes the main one. This is a decision which they may not yet be prepared to make, however. Sometimes they're forced into it prematurely, thanks to that Tower moment which goes like this: "You think you can bunk up here rent-free & eat my food & carry on with your side chick while I'm at work supporting your ass?! Oh hell no, go pack your shit right now, I want you out tonight!"