Men and women don't speak the same language...
#1
Scholar 
They may be speaking English or whatever language they have in common...

The words may have set meanings which have been agreed upon for hundreds of years...

But they aren't speaking the same language.

Not even in the most basic interactions.

Maybe it's not just men and women, maybe it's everyone...

Could be an individual thing.

But I think this is particularly true for men and women.
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#2
most people do not maintain the same internal contexts. there is most definitely a divide between the TWO GENDERS that exist and i'd argue even more so when you get into foreign languages.

the languages themselves are designed to ultimately constrain thought.
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#3
It's actually really fascinating.

But it shows the need for really considering one's words...

Again, compassion.

It's something I keep concluding...

I want to be so much more compassionate with everyone, because we just aren't even all perceiving the world the same way.

Everyone's perception truly is so different, and everyone really is just doing their best.

Even bitches and assholes are doing their best... I'm convinced at this point.

I want to have so much more compassion.
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#4
Men speak the language of MUH DIK!!!!
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#5
https://banned.video/watch?id=6157a5b973e0882895676a86

56:23 Teddy bear so cute in any language
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#6
(10-04-2021, 06:04 PM)Guest Wrote: Men speak the language of MUH DIK!!!!

I mean, that's sort of an over simplification...

To be honest, it seems a lot more deep than most of the shit that goes on between males and females.

Men and women in general, of any age, any background...

This really applies to people in EVERY situation in life.

There is a very serious difference in the way they are perceiving their conversations, even down to the most simple statements.

I can look back on my life and see how this has been true in almost every interaction I can think of between myself and ANY male.

We are perceiving the world in vastly different ways, don't take away the same points from any conversation or interaction, and are basically not even living in the same reality.
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#7
Almost seems better to just not communicate with people linguistically.

I think about all the shit I've talked online, not just here but everywhere I've ever been...

I've never been on the same wavelength as anyone else reading that shit or conversing with me.

We are ALL in completely different places.

I have an addiction to talking shit online...

I'd like to think I talk less in real life. Not sure.

But I am starting to think it'd be for the best if we all just tried communicating in different ways...

Maybe like...

Grunting or some shit like we did back in the caveman days.

Maybe not vocally at all. Maybe we should just rely on making motions and facial expressions or some shit.

I dunno but...

I'm thinking talking is just a bad idea and I'm kind of over it.

Can't stop talking shit on the internet though... that's my biggest addiction.

It gets me absolutely nowhere, but... don't really wanna give it up.
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#8
shitposting is a way of life.
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#9
we never have...we never will. 
we won't make milk either or
gestate and give birth to babies. 
now this woman has a message
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#10
But, but, the social engineers tell us there is NO difference between men and women!!!
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#11
It looks like they are gettin ready for anal action
https://s-img.mgid.com/g/10705389/492x27...Lety8hkVRY
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#12
I never knew wiki was so filthy , my goodness

was reading about Yolanda de polastron , Marie Antoinettes best buddy and the French press accused these two of naughty things

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tribadism#18th_Century
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#13
(10-05-2021, 02:19 AM)Guest Wrote: we never have...we never will.
we won't make milk either or
gestate and give birth to babies.
now this woman has a message

It’s like her face broke out of a shining sphere. Couple of guys got the brass. She’s a real Genie.
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#14
In my country, we have saying, "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus."

Oh, and somebody wrote a book by that name.

https://www.amazon.com/Men-Mars-Women-Ve...0000546PE/
Social media? No, my friend. Antisocial media. Cool
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#15

watch it.
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#16
(10-05-2021, 08:42 PM)Walter Wrote: It’s like her face broke out of a shining sphere. Couple of guys got the brass. She’s a real Genie.

You wouldn't believe.

Djinns everywhere
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#17
reciprocity is the only stable language to keep two opposites, yin yang, together. 
they naturally repel each other so deals must be brokered for both parties
to benefit on a relatively equal scale


Who doesn't dig a derby?
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#18
(10-04-2021, 10:58 AM)Chatwoman Wrote: They may be speaking English or whatever language they have in common...

The words may have set meanings which have been agreed upon for hundreds of years...

But they aren't speaking the same language.

Not even in the most basic interactions.

Maybe it's not just men and women, maybe it's everyone...

Could be an individual thing.

But I think this is particularly true for men and women.
80 percent of language between humans is body language. 10 percent is the 'tone' you're speaking in and the remaining 10 percent are literal meanings of sentences. 

80 percent of the body, unable to lie unless trained, unable to be hidden unless trained. 

Most men don't study body language, esp for females ((( )))) concentrating on the 20 percent, half of which are words not expressing the true intention. 

For instance a man may be having a fight with his wife over bills. 

They are using the word "bills" a lot and arguing in an angry 'tone.'

That's 20 percent of a "show"

The REAL 80 percent truth is she is showing him she's sexually available and begging him to fuck her
but he can't see that. He's focusing on the words and the tone. Emotion is over riding liquid logic. 

It's not hard to see why there's a problem. 

Also, it will be worse with people raised on computers without a lot of socialization. 
That is, responding to body cues, sometimes. Depends on the amount of isolation obviously. 

Reading ONLY body language may drive you nuts though. It's like hearing people's thoughts. 
You don't want everyone's thoughts in your brain so being on that level only isn't good for more
than short bursts. 

No one is telling the truth when speaking or typing. They are  telling "A" truth sometimes

But, there are primary protocols being ran in the background totaling less than five. 
Five primary branching out to subroutines ran by logic in the lower brain at the base. 

If you get stuck in body language land, focus on the sound and word's meaning despite
what their body is asking or telling. 

Can you imagine being body language speaking/reading only? You'd get in big trouble I imagine as
well as go past many personal barriers in speech and physical action. 

Knowing how to speak/read it comes in handy in certain situations and in life generally. 

It works for or against animals as well. Dogs are excellent at reading human body language. 

knowing the language of the predator will repel a dog unless it's trained or rabid. 

It's more than an emulation of human emotion and behavior. Dogs personalities are usually like their
human masters'. 
Halloween Month? Fuck Yeah. 
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#19
happyface 
At least you listen to AC/DC that is the only good thing I can find about you Guest.
Try the live at donington shoot to thrill.
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