(10-29-2020, 02:20 PM)Dev Wrote: The "type" you want today may be quite different from the type you'll want in a few years. Hope that makes sense.
I also think it stands to reason that a woman might want something different depending on what "phase" of her reproductive years she's in.
It's easiest (for me at least) to assume things about the preferences women may have when they're getting on in their childbearing years. So in the 30s, it seems like 1 of 2 things might be true for a woman... either she's got her mind set on the specific kind of man she wants and she's going to pass up having kids at all if she can't find him, OR she's gonna start getting desperate and going for any dude who turns her on and who's down to bang.
I can't say that there's any truth to either of these ideas though.
(10-29-2020, 02:36 PM)Dev Wrote: ... along comes an alpha who makes their panties wet, and every single one of those rules goes out the window. They're immediately down to fuck, and damn the consequences.
What this means is, unless you have a much higher than average capacity for self-restraint, you have a better chance of getting pregnant by that alpha than by a guy who meets all of your well thought out expectations.
I would say at this point, we gotta talk about straight up biology though. Like pheromone type shit. Because I think there's A LOT to be said for sheer chemical attraction. I think you can just SMELL a good mate (i.e. one who is likely to be able to knock you up) and if the timing is just right (ovulation and whatnot) then I think that it's hard to pass up for a lot of women and that's why they end up knocked up by Chad.
(10-29-2020, 03:06 PM)Dev Wrote: I'm pressed for time, so I'll give you the short version of this and elaborate on it later.
I think your home schooling works in your favor here. The key to molding a young mind is to start working on the child early and keep pounding the desired worldview into their head. Being home schooled, your parents evidently got in ahead of the education system, your peers, and the media. Having presumably been isolated from your peers to a greater extent than most kids, it's likely your parents had more influence on you than anyone else.
There are other things you've said that lead me to believe you're a good girl, but more on that later.
I was raised to believe that sex is sin, and having sex before marriage damages your soul.
LOL.
I mean.
It worked man.
I would never change a thing about my upbringing.
But I never really revolted against it either... didn't grow up and use my "freedom" to rebel or do bad things.
I may have made a few retarded choices every now and then, but at least I have never been promiscuous.
I think I've made it far enough in life to know that I never would be promiscuous either... which gives me a lot of peace and comfort.
