(07-15-2017, 02:01 PM)Tribulation Wrote: Sometimes less exposed can be more exciting. Like a light summer dress. Nothing is actually exposed but subtle glimpses of hidden curves through movement or back light shadows will hold your attention for hours. Then as fantasy meets intrigue your desire and arousal is enhanced ten fold. I must say that I would rather watch a woman milling around the house or garden in a light summer dress than naked.
Oh I completely agree. I basically live my life by this rule. I don't really like wearing anything too revealing. I enjoy covering the skin up, mostly because I'm pretty sensitive to the sun so I want to protect my skin. But beyond that, it just makes me feel better not to be too exposed. It's just too awkward to show a lot of skin. Besides, covering up provides protection from more than just direct sunlight, it's protection from bugs etc. Lots of reasons.
Having said that, I do love clothes at cling to my figure. It's always an extreme with me... I'm either wearing something tight, but have all the skin covered up, or I'm wearing a dress/skirt that's long and flowing.
Or I'm naked.
(07-15-2017, 02:01 PM)Tribulation Wrote: Porn is overrated. Never could watch a couple doing it and get much excitement out of it. I have found self fulfillment porn exciting. I believe it is the fantasy factor. Imagining the unseen curves, or putting self in the motivation for her self fulfillment. Just viewing nakedness or two others having sex doesn't seem to awaken the same desires. And none of it is fulfilling without direct interaction. Momentary relief is never lasting satisfaction.
Heaven bless you for that... I can't stand men who are all obsessed with porn. It's so sad. Of course I spin right off into the more conspiratorial aspects of the situation. I believe porn has actually been used to deteriorate society in all kinds of aspects. It's been intentionally geared to destroy relationships, giving rise to completely ridiculous and unrealistic expectations. It's encouraged promiscuity, which results in low self esteem, compromised reputation, and even disease. It's been used as a tool for shaping the sexuality of the masses. It's been used for population control... for control over certain groups of people. I will leave it at that.
"Direct interaction" is really important... and this of course, with humans, goes beyond any sexual connotations as well. I noted in another thread about some other topic, that people are starved for affection. Like any other animals, humans want to frolic and play, and they want to be touched and loved directly. People don't get that so much anymore, which causes all sorts of problems.
