07-31-2019, 06:32 PM
Sometimes there are "authorities" that you "can't" say no to...
Certain things, usually to do with the manmade "law of the land" that you "can't" say no to.
In truth, you CAN say no to these things, absolutely.
There ARE consequences...
You CAN say fuck the consequences. But you do have to deal with the consequences...
In most everyday life situations with people and places, the consequences of saying no are severe only in your mind.
You will find the high of saying no and standing like a mountain in your resolution dampens any blow that may come from petty people being angry about your decisions.
But sometimes, there are uncomfortable consequences for refusal...
It's up to you to decide what consequences you're willing to deal with, and where you draw the line.
Personally, I'd rather say yes to certain "authorities" and have to do whatever, than to say yes to ordinary people.
It helps to be a bit of a masochist and a total pervert in some ways as you can draw sexual fulfillment from select situations which aren't even sexual.
Certain things, usually to do with the manmade "law of the land" that you "can't" say no to.
In truth, you CAN say no to these things, absolutely.
There ARE consequences...
You CAN say fuck the consequences. But you do have to deal with the consequences...
In most everyday life situations with people and places, the consequences of saying no are severe only in your mind.
You will find the high of saying no and standing like a mountain in your resolution dampens any blow that may come from petty people being angry about your decisions.
But sometimes, there are uncomfortable consequences for refusal...
It's up to you to decide what consequences you're willing to deal with, and where you draw the line.
Personally, I'd rather say yes to certain "authorities" and have to do whatever, than to say yes to ordinary people.
It helps to be a bit of a masochist and a total pervert in some ways as you can draw sexual fulfillment from select situations which aren't even sexual.