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He was all trying to small talk and I told him I don't do small talk on touchscreens, it's too hard to type...
He was talking about how he's married and just wants to chat, like he's not looking for anything dirty...
I was like oh okay, are you unhappy in your marriage??
He was like no...
Then I was like well does your wife know you chat with people on Instagram? And he was like no, and then he goes "Sorry, I won't message you anymore"... WTF!
So I just blocked him...
Like the guy was all guilty and shit for trying to chat with chicks, and then got all freaked out when I was asking about his wife, who HE mentioned first!
Like what the fuck is with people?!
LOL...
I chat with some cool people on Insta, I'm not saying it's 100% impossible to have an intellectually fulfilling conversation on Instagram...
But let's be real, it's impossible to have an intellectually fulfilling conversation on Instagram, ROFLMAO!
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If you're gonna try to chat with random chicks online behind your wife's back, fucking own it...
Don't be a fucking pansy and get all weird when you literally aren't even doing anything wrong.
Like I'm sure ultimately the guy IS looking to replace his wife because after all, why the fuck else would he be chatting up chicks?
He just can't admit it to himself...
But at the end of the day, anyone who you don't know, who just RANDOMLY messages you and says absolutely nothing of worth in their opening statement is a fucking waste of time...
Social media breeds intellectual dwarfism.
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Let's face it, I guarantee most people he talks to are idiots because most people on social media are idiots...
He couldn't handle somebody who wasn't an idiot and who decided to try and ask him questions about what is clearly a serious problem in his life...
Like that guy was basically begging for a wannabe psych-eval from me over his marriage, but he wimped out.
Poor fucker...
Moment of silence for that guy.
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I've encountered married dudes over the past several months who are SOOOOOO sad with their marriages and just want some kind of hope in life...
Like dudes who LOVE their wives and want nothing more than for their wives to love them and WANT to be with them.
And these dudes are SOOOOO tormented that they even WANT to reach out to a woman and be understood...
They have HUGE guilt problems, HUGE shame problems for even wanting to SPEAK to another woman when they're being totally brushed off and abandoned by their wives.
I feel sorry for men... it's sad.
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Cuz most men really don't wanna cheat on their wives...
But they get driven to seeking that connection elsewhere because they're so LONELY and feel sooooo abandoned.
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I usually never put people on blast like that, but man...
The self-loathing and fear with that guy was so strong and this is such a COMMON problem...
He's a great example and awareness needs to be brought to this issue.
Because I AM an advocate for men, I DO want to defend men.
But in the same token, I have a patience problem regarding people who aren't ready to face their issues.
I'm just not the person to come to and poke with a stick if you're not ready to REALLY, really fucking go there.
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Like I'd never say who this person was, it was just some random stranger...
But no matter who it is, I never put people on blast and air private convos...
That's a huge huge no-no and a line I'd never cross...
Sometimes though man, I can't let the shit slide, I CANNOT let issues go unaddressed.
If that guy isn't gonna face his problems, then he can at least be the catalyst for the topic being breached in a much more general and public way.
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And that's another reason I frown upon carrying on private conversations, in 90% of cases...
I think talking in private is a waste of time...
I've had people message me over the course of MONTHS, sharing valuable personal knowledge and all kinds of interesting shit...
And after a while I tell them hey, you need to start a blog about this...
Sharing all this info with me? It's nice and I appreciate you but...
You are not being efficient at all with your time, energy, wisdom/knowledge...
Make a site, start a blog...
ANYTHING, fucking ANYTHING public so that this info can be shared on a broader scale.
People almost never listen...
Almost always a disappointment.
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The very few people who have taken my advice though?
Those people make me proud and I thank God for them every day!
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They're much happier having their own platforms/place to express themselves and share their knowledge...
I don't get why anybody would back away from the opportunity to have their own space, but whatever...
Maybe he was kissing up to you because you’ve got a high PR site, and he’s out for some tasty backlinks
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LOL...
Nah, I don't think he knew about my site.
"I'm just not the person to come to and poke with a stick if you're not ready to REALLY, really fucking go there."
yeah you mentioned that a few days ago , you just like snuggling and getting half naked
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I want to be Instagram friends with you!!
01-19-2020, 04:35 PM
I just got this weird txt message from either Canada or USA def from North America, that gave this cute pic saying I love you. Not like a romantic pic just one with Angels kissing like a religious one. I think it may just be a spam probe. I do talk to some nice religious peeps on FB but they would just message me on FB.
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Yeah it happens a lot especially on new numbers.
I've heard of people getting some pretty juicy texts from people who weren't clued in to their friends' new numbers...
I get jealous.
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I've heard of people getting some pretty sad messages too though.
01-19-2020, 05:03 PM
(01-19-2020, 04:56 PM)Mister Obvious Wrote: Yeah it happens a lot especially on new numbers.
I've heard of people getting some pretty juicy texts from people who weren't clued in to their friends' new numbers...
I get jealous. Ive had my number since 1998, no one can see it on FB but me, it is such an angelic pic though not romantic just like angels kissing. I thought it could be my mate in Pennsylvania but she would just message me on FB. I think its a spam probe but using such a beautiful image to do so, 2 angels kissing, is just blasphemy!
And your weird instagram message wasn't from a guy called Wes Watson was it? Fuck I hope not.
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