Women don't want rail thin dudes, and here's why...

[Mister Obvious]

See how I just want what's best for you (and all men) sweetie?

[Mister Obvious]

[user328]

LOL, you can't honestly argue that anything I've said in this thread has anything to do with feminism on any level...e goal of it

I'm thinking more of the Dolly Parton thread, where you said lusting after cougars and MILFs is acceptable, while lusting after teen girls is creepy.

That's ass backwards.

The reason you think that way is because feminists have spent the last 30 years normalizing that shit, while somehow managing to convince everyone that desiring fertility is identical to pedophilia. That's literally where that kind of thinking originated. As the Left's modus operandi is destroying established institutions, the purpose of this feminist nonsense is to destroy the most basic cultural institution - the family.

[Mister Obvious]

I'm thinking more of the Dolly Parton thread, where you said lusting after cougars and MILFs is acceptable, while lusting after teen girls is creepy.

Bro I said lusting after mom/granny was not AS creepy.

You're lucky I'm as nice to you as I am sweetheart...

Because IT IS creepy. You can't see it because you're so far into it.

Just drop it and relax.

I love me some salt, but too much is bad, ya dig?

[Mister Obvious]

Look, the bottom line is that young people are supposed to reproduce together.

And old people are supposed to be old.

What is young? A 35 year old man and a 20 year old woman qualifies as young to me.

A 25 year old man and woman... a 20 year old man and woman.

When a woman HAS to go for a man who's 20+ years older than her, there is a problem with society.

Fix the problems, raise better women.

Stop hanging around in sausage fest circle jerks bitching about women and take the decades left of your life to cultivate a better society where females are raised right.

Maybe you need to start an outreach program to teach young females traditional values. Churches used to do this kinda shit but they've been infiltrated.

If you're not capable, shop the idea to men who are.

This isn't some perv shit...

Outreach to the young has always been important and it could be a way to start saving this situation before things get even worse.

It will take sacrifice, and I get it... you're not a spring chicken, there's not much incentive for you to do it. And that's exactly the problem... men have given up and they don't even think of the future or what they're leaving behind for the next generations to deal with.

These problems are becoming insurmountable, and men need to step up and start fixing it now.

Put women back in line, and raise future women properly.

[Mister Obvious]

Evil people reaching out to the young and brainwashing them, destroying them to the very core has caused this mess.

Do something.

[user328]

When a woman HAS to go for a man who's 20+ years older than her, there is a problem with society.

No woman has to go for an older man. Women are drawn to status and affluence. It so happens that older men who have worked for a few decades and are established in their careers are more likely to have it than young men who are just starting out. Yeah, there are successful young men that they should probably be going after instead, but those guys usually aren't ready to settle down yet.

Stop hanging around in sausage fest circle jerks bitching about women....

Aaaaaand out come the feminist shaming tactics. If you don't like the message, shoot the messenger.

As if I sit around all day worrying about women. Because I have absolutely nothing better to do, right?

Truth be told, I never got that immersed in MGTOW, nor any other movement. I watched some MGTOW videos a few years ago when it was this trendy new thing before I, too, got tired of their bitching about women. If those guys were really MGTOW, they'd quit dwelling on what women do and go their own way already.

Not to mention, defending myself against veiled insinuations that I'm a pedophile or whatever isn't "bitching about women."

[user328]

Maybe you need to start an outreach program to teach young females traditional values.

An older man doing any kind of outreach for young women will be viewed as creepy in this day and age, regardless of his intentions. Very few men would knowingly set themselves up for that kind of grief. Sensible men take calculated risks, not reckless ones. I wouldn't even be admitting my attraction to sixteen and seventeen year old girls if I wasn't anonymous and wasn't reasonably sure you're not gonna d0x me.

The outreach thing is something that should be done by older women. Problem is, older women who used to know better are mimicking the younger women's attitudes and behavior too.

[Mister Obvious]

The outreach thing is something that should be done by older women. Problem is, older women who used to know better are mimicking the younger women's attitudes and behavior too.

Sigh.

You're fucking right.

Well I guess that's my cue.

Time to change the world!

[Mister Obvious]

Truth be told, I never got that immersed in MGTOW, nor any other movement.

And yet you're still this entrenched in it...

Scary to think about the guys who really identify with it and claim it.

Almost as scary as feminists...

[Mister Obvious]

Okay, I'll admit it, it's just as bad.

I always wanna be team men...

But extremism is deadly no matter what.

[user328]

Well, you don't have to go on a crusade or anything. Just lead by example.

If another woman justifies her behavior with, "It's the '20s! Everybody's doing it!" then you have an opportunity to explain the long-term consequences of her lack of discipline and why your way would be more likely to yield the benefits she seeks.

Because let's face it, a man is the last person a woman will accept criticism from these days.

[user328]

And yet you're still this entrenched in it...

What I've learned doesn't change just because I don't wallow in it.

[user328]

What I've learned doesn't change just because I don't wallow in it.

That would be like letting fear of rattlesnakes control my actions. I know rattlesnakes are dangerous, but I don't dwell on it 24 hours a day.

[Mister Obvious]

Well, you don't have to go on a crusade or anything. Just lead by example.

If another woman justifies her behavior with, "It's the '20s! Everybody's doing it!" then you have an opportunity to explain the long-term consequences of her lack of discipline and why your way would be more likely to yield the benefits she seeks.

Because let's face it, a man is the last person a woman will accept criticism from these days.

Thank you, Dev.

I truly appreciate these words of wisdom, and thank you for giving me realistic and sensible advice about how to approach an admittedly daunting task.

[user328]

You're welcome, MO.

And for the record, a thin guy has no trouble getting girls if he has other things going for him.

Nature generally provides some desirable trait to make up for deficiencies in another department.

[Mister Obvious]

Also a very valid and appreciated point.

[zenba]

people incarnated at this point are not around to make lovey dovey family time. you might think you see it in younger people, but they are just part of the illusion.

[user328]

I don't really see anything relatable in people under a certain age. The thing with younger women is a purely physical attraction.

In all honesty, I'd be just as happy with a woman in her 30s, or possibly early 40s, if she was well kept and pleasant to be around. Any older than that, and I'd feel like I was dating my grandmother. Yes, even if she was my age or a little younger. A man doesn't suddenly start preferring old ladies when he gets older. Being with an old person requires that the two of you grew old together and didn't meet when you were both old.

[52]

Just date me. Problem solved.