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(04-05-2022, 02:05 PM)Chatwoman Wrote:
She's been DRIVEN AWAY to the Colorado mountains where it's STILL BLIZZARDING in APRIL.
That's how far she had to go to hermit and try and find herself and a will to live and all that shit.
THAT'S WHERE THE TREATMENT FROM HER LOVED ONES/FRIENDS/ASSOCIATES DROVE HER TO!
So I mean yeah excuse me if I want to defend Kelli because I have compassion for her situation and for what her life has been up til this point.
She deserves to be understood and she deserves for people to have compassion on her, UNDERSTAND her sacrifices, understand her life and what it's been.
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I'm not saying people should just blindly believe what SHE says...
It's not a war of who's right and who's wrong or even what really happened.
It's about understanding Kelli's mental state, understanding what caused it...
Taking a comprehensive look at her entire life FROM BIRTH, and determining why she behaves the way she does.
It's about appreciating the fact that even though she's totally nuts, she still tried to be the best mother/wife/friend/co-whatever that she could be.
Where's the appreciation, compassion, and understanding that Kelli deserves??
That's all I'm saying.
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(04-05-2022, 02:05 PM)Chatwoman Wrote:
38:04 she starts showing old pics, this is pretty special. She's as beautiful as I figured she'd be.
38:40 she says in the white dress photo she was 16.
41:59 awwww that's SOOOO CUTE!!! It's so cool that she still has this stuff, she's really lucky. A lot of people lose those kind of super special keepsakes over the years for one reason or another. The way she was checking her thumbprints against the thumbprints of the mother's just goes to show how much she's been affected by her beginnings and how much she has had to wonder over the years.
I'll never stop having compassion and empathy for Kelli, and for other wives/mothers who sacrifice day in and day out for their families and almost never get thanks for it. Good women like Kelli get nothing but taken for granted. Not saying she's perfect, sounds like she was a bit strict like when she was talking about not taking food into the bedroom. That's annoying but... I dunno, it doesn't make her bad. Everybody's got their issues and it doesn't make people bad even if it does make them hard to deal with on certain levels.
46:07 she was definitely a grown woman there, and I will just say... it doesn't look like the huge boobs are natural. I've theorized for years that they're implants and could be responsible for her allergies.
It absolutely breaks my heart to know that somebody, somewhere along the way made Kelli feel like her IMMENSE natural beauty just wasn't enough, and that she needed huge breasts in order to be accepted. It's so utterly devastating.
If anybody doesn't like me raising questions about Kelli's giant hooters, tell her to delete her YouTube channel and stop being a public figure... dunno what else to say.
47:19 another pic.
51:18 she's always been so pretty, you know what, she kinda looks like Annie Potts.
1:02:30 prom photo, so cool to see these old pics and how Kelli's always looked the same.
1:24:05 oh man, that would SUUUUCK. It's fucking APRILLLL. Stop it with the SNOWWWW.
LOL, I mean heck, I know some people out there actually do like snow, well I ain't fucking one of 'em mkay.
1:34:30 she mentions allergies.
I gotta stop watching now tho, I just found out HasanAbi had a livestream with Grimes.
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1:14:10 so I'm just skipping around in the vid and I land on this part, long story short Kelli is about to go on an RV journey and it sounds like maybe she's taking some of her merch with her to sell at meet ups. I am not sure if that's accurate but that's what I interpreted from what she's saying.
That sounds really cool, but man, those gas prices. She better be a fricken millionaire! Props to her for getting out there regardless of gas prices and whatnot, it's beautiful when people follow their inspiration and don't let things stop them, especially artificial restrictions that have been placed there by the machinations of the evil and power hungry crypt-keeper elite... they're so old and gross, and all they can do is cling onto the ever diminishing power they have left.
In any case, as I always say when I hear about people buying an RV... should've bought a van instead. Nobody needs an RV. All the trappings of the miniature version of home comforts are part of what you really need to let go of when you're heading out on a serious journey of the heart/soul/mind/body. A soccermom van would have done it, and even better, a van that you can stand up in. But if she does enjoy being out there on the expanse of the open road, she can graduate to a van sometime in the future. Stealthy, leagues cheaper on gas, more versatile... just a far better mobile living rig than an RV.
Whatever her plans are out there on her journey, I hope she has a great time. I can honestly say that I believe EVERYONE should take at least one roadtrip (solo traveler) just to feel what true freedom really is, what true peace really is, and to see the mindbendingly gorgeous scenery this great nation has to offer.
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A bird just clocked the shit out of himself on her window...
Literally there's a bird shaped print left on the window where the poor thing hit it and prolly just slid down the entire building and maybe even dead.
That's so sad.
Rofl.
Agh, my God.
Dude.
1:20 how the hell does she know what kind of bird it was, for real, there are like elevendy million different kinda birds.
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7:16 that fridge/kitchen tour should make any woman who loves to cook and loves to eat just literally cry inspired tears of joy, roflmfaolol. I mean, it is GLORIOUS. Damn, Kelli lives RIGHT.
It's cool she's traveled all over the place, making stuff happen. I hope she continues having lots of fun. I dunno if she set out looking for a new place she may wanna relocate to, or if she's just been making business connections. Sounds like Colorado's nature situation is better for her allergies, but then again I'm pretty sure there's no pollen in the desert either. There are other places if she wants to go somewhere else besides Colorado and live.
I'd probably go to somewhere uppity in Arizona, like Scottsdale area, or around Paradise Valley or Fountain Hills.
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I think Kelli really likes traveling this way, too bad she can't do it forever! Well, I mean, maybe she could.
15:50 roflmao, Kelli has such a great sense of humor, I love it, this is a really clever approach to dealing with douchebags.
When Kelli was doing one of her Facebook lives, she did say that she had implants, and added that she didn't even want them. She didn't go into any more detail, just mentioned it more in passing and moved on.
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That's exactly what I figured...
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Imagine being pressured into doing something like that to your body when you don't even want to.
Kelli deserves so much happiness and freedom in life from here on out.
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Kelli's been streaming A TON lately, and that's super awesome.
I think this is GREAT for her business/career as a media personality...
She's doing a great job. I know many women who originally started out on YouTube in the 2010s era really wanted to use it as a stepping stone to TV instead, but that was outdated thinking.
What Kelli's doing is where the success lies in a general sense. All she has to do is just keep making videos.
It's great for her channel to switch up, travel around, see different places, have new experiences she can learn from and translate to her audience...
I'm super proud of all the exploration she's been doing lately.
Haven't gotten a chance to watch very much, but I'm digging all the regular uploading and the long hang out sessions, they've always been where Kelli really shines the brightest and makes a great connection.
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(04-05-2022, 02:07 PM)Chatwoman Wrote: So I mean yeah excuse me if I want to defend Kelli because I have compassion for her situation and for what her life has been up til this point.
She deserves to be understood and she deserves for people to have compassion on her, UNDERSTAND her sacrifices, understand her life and what it's been.
Defending her but not personally knowing her? Out of curiosity, have you ever read this im_the_daughter_of_a_popular_spiritual/
Its pretty detailed, aligns with everything kelli probably lied about. It would be the reason why she suddenly disappeared and never fully explained (except youtube completely deleting her account which is of course very strange) why. Am not saying you should take that thread for truth but if the daughter were lying for attention, she’d have done it way more publicly and more often, not just on a hard to find page.
We can all agree that towards the end of kelliintheraw she started sounding crazy and completely out of it, so that could discredit every video she’s ever made.
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No I think Kelli is a victim of bullying... probably lifelong. It sounds like (judging by her videos which I saw MANY of), she's been getting abused by people mentally etc. for a long time.
That's what I've gathered from her content.
I saw some dumbass in her comments the other day say she deleted her channel, which is just obnoxious. Let it never be forgotten that YouTube shit all over Kelli by deleting her channel, and that is fucked up.
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All I see in the situation is that Kelli got done wrong by mostly everybody and every institution too.
So apparently different people see things way differently when it comes to Kelli.
It's healthy to have different opinions but at a certain point, haters are just bitter superfans who love you!
I guess that would be especially true if it was your own family or romantic partners who are being haters.
It's just twisted love. But projection is also a textbook narcissist move. Sometimes people going around claiming people are narcissists, are the REAL narcissists.
I'm just saying.
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I mean I dunno if people have noticed but there's A LOT of mental illness in society, it's rampant AF these days. I think people need to realize that.
So how is it okay to hate on people, especially if it's your family or loved one?? Yet I see people do it all the time, even when it's not deserved. Again, it's bullying. That's all I have to say about it.
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How can people with parents they hate get past how much they hate their parents and give them the permission to be individuals?
I think that's one of my main questions.
Why do people see their family member as a slave without an identity that has its own will and function?
I meeeaaannn...
You see this behavior between spouses/partners.
But it's next level shit when you see it from the kids who are either brainwashed, or just mentally ill as a result of being raised in that family dynamic. Understandable, but at a certain point you gotta get over it and have compassion for people... even your loved ones, shocker!
People are clueless and selfish. That's what I take away from this.
Everyone is an asshole and I'm on no one's side.
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Me personally??
I have this little thing called COMPASSION.
It enables me to see situations from all sides and understand the hurts that people have endured which lead them to make the choices that formed their lives/families.
Compassion is something narcissists don't have BTW. ESPECIALLY not toward their loved ones, close friends, family etc. They'll have it for a stranger sooner.
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(08-10-2022, 06:32 PM)Chatwoman Wrote: But projection is also a textbook narcissist move. Sometimes people going around claiming people are narcissists, are the REAL narcissists.
True. Sometimes I wonder if I'm the real narcissist in my situation, and whether or not I'm the one who's projecting. Or maybe it's both parties?!?
One thing the other party does that I definitely do not do is browbeat, berate, and belittle people for not living up to my unrealistic expectations. I generally don't give a fuck what other people do. Therefore, I end up concluding that I'm not the narcissist.
Browbeat, Berate & Belittle, Attorneys at Law.
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(08-10-2022, 06:43 PM)Chatwoman Wrote: Why do people see their family member as a slave without an identity that has its own will and function?
Oh yeah. That's another thing they do that I don't do.
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