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01-24-2018, 10:20 PM
The home life is a very private and individual matter.
People need privacy and plenty of room to do their own thing.
I especially think the idea that we should sleep in the same bed is ridiculous.
People were meant to come together, fuck super hard, and then go about their own separate lives again.
This isn't to say people shouldn't live together...
They absolutely should, if there's enough room for both people to have enough space.
But sleeping in the same bed together, well that just takes it too far.
My God...
Who wants to be that close to somebody? Really?
The only valid reason to live together in the first place is so that you can meet up for sex.
And maybe hang out sometimes like good friends and normal people.
But you don't have to sleep in the same bed or the same room too...
Being in the same building is good enough.
It's just all so needy... so unbelievably needy.
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People should live together, but have their own personal bedrooms and designated places where they hang out alone.
And honestly...
I think some couples would do well NOT to live together, and really only see each other a few times a week or so.
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For EVERYONE.
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I just think the mere idea of sleeping in the same bed with someone is ABSURD.
How do people live their whole married lives like that?!
Somebody is always snoring or some other kind of annoying shit that makes it impossible to actually sleep...
No one should be jeopardizing their own rest for another person. At all.
No one should be expected to put their rest on the line just because someone else is a needy fuck and wants to sleep together.
SLEEPING is one of the most IMPORTANT things in peoples' lives...
If you don't get enough REST, you can't FUNCTION properly.
NO ONE has the right to insist that another person should be sleeping with them, therefore impeding on that person's good rest.
At the end of the day...
It's about sex.
Bottom line.
And you can have sex just fine if you don't sleep in the same room.
I think it keeps things fresh and exciting NOT to sleep together.
It allows some level of mystery and maintains a healthy sense of wonder.
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I always thought, like when I hear people selling or trading away their apartment in Stockholm to get one big one with a partner... I´m like... Why would you do that? Keep two apartments and go meet each other.
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You have a lot of good and healthy points there.
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No need to live as sardines.
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(01-24-2018, 10:38 PM)Crille Wrote: Keep two apartments and go meet each other.
Yeah I totally agree with this.
But truly and honestly...
I think the ultimate goal should be a house big enough to live in together and only run into each other now and then.
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Because by default, apartments suck anyway...
Unless it's like a massive penthouse or something, you're always gonna hear other people fucking around, banging on the floor, banging on the ceiling, talking, yelling, whatever...
It's ghetto.
So ultimately...
In a perfect world, everyone would just have a house big enough to accommodate their needs.
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And of course an apartment wouldn't really work out just for that same reason...
You have to be able to scream and plead and run and chase and whatnot without other people hearing.
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Let´s own an apartment complex and then just "Ay!!! Trixie!! Yo WTF!!! Over here!!"
And you´re like squinting your eyes "Oh! Crille!"
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(01-24-2018, 10:48 PM)Trix Wrote: You have to be able to scream and plead and run and chase and whatnot without other people hearing.
You would? I mean... OK... Sounds fun.
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You can't have a properly gratifying sexual encounter without being able to scream.
Of course you might not NEED to scream... but you should be ABLE to, no worries, no problem.
No concern about neighbors hearing, none of that stupid shit.
That is just another form of restriction...
And I say FUCK ALL RESTRICTION.
Anything that restricts, get rid of it.
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It´s settled then we´re getting a building.
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You let me know when you've got that, Crille!
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*starts workin hard right this very moment makin that money*
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