Couples aren't meant to be around each other all the time, they need space...

[Mister Obvious]

This took me to long to find out, such wise advice, 2 people come together, they still need to live their regular everyday lives. But we fall so in love we just burn everything else for the love. Love is such a strong thing.

Hot damn Fungus that might be the most feelsy post you've ever made there brother.

[user94]

Hot damn Fungus that might be the most feelsy post you've ever made there brother.

Its true though I had to learn it from hard fucking shit, im glad you learned it so young.
Its about Balance, but the love takes over, and all balance goes out the fucking window which ends up crashing and burning.

[Mister Obvious]

Oh yeah man...

It's a little something I like to call radical detachment...



The art of letting go. Of everything. Preemptively.

This willingness to radically let go is balanced by the human tendency to deeply desire togetherness with another person.

For some reason, we all just keep burning our hand on the stove of love...

It's that reproduction programming thingy, super strong within us.

And that's fine and dandy as long as we remember, all things must pass.

And we must gracefully let them go when that time comes.

[user94]

Oh yeah man...

It's a little something I like to call radical detachment...



The art of letting go. Of everything. Preemptively.

This willingness to radically let go is balanced by the human tendency to deeply desire togetherness with another person.

For some reason, we all just keep burning our hand on the stove of love...

It's that reproduction programming thingy, super strong within us.

And that's fine and dandy as long as we remember, all things must pass.

And we must gracefully let them go when that time comes.

That is priceless fucking wisdom right there. Unreal. Now if we just told kids this in Primary school when they get their first GF they may not spend 20 years going around in circles trying to figure out wtf is going on?

[Mister Obvious]

Everybody needs to know this.

[user94]

Everybody needs to know this.

Before its to late before they waste their lives chasing something that isn't real.....

[Guest]

Do not go gently into that goodnight

Kipling

[Cream of Caulk]

you just totally described my marriage in the OP.

i love being an independent liberated woman in my marriage, my duities are so minimal. sure i'll get that winter formula washer fluid while I'm at walmart for him and sure he'll give me money so we do have a little ties between us but usually just fucking is the only shit we do alone together. 

you need a truck driver trix, want me to hook you up with one, one imported from another country and already busy as fuck making money?

[user94]

You speak about your marriage like its a thing?