The greatest pain that can ever be endured leaves no marks...

[Mister Obvious]

No torture and no injury can ever come close to the agony of losing a child. 

I admire your strength...

When your arms feel empty and the pain is too great, just know that you are held in the embrace of a love that will never let you go.

[thatguest]

awwww, no words :( love to your friend

[Mister Obvious]

Yeah you know sometimes I really wonder how the fuck people actually SURVIVE.

Like if that happened to me, I really don't know if I could live... literally.

[Mister Obvious]

I feel kinda the same way about people who have children who are disabled, or live with life threatening conditions.

It makes me stare over at the angsty anti-natalists out there and be like "Hmmm, maybe y'all are right."

[thatguest]

omg yes
babies/kids with cancer, I cant, I dont know how they do it
and the people who can look after a disabled kid are angels

[Mister Obvious]

this must sound weird but looking back for me Im kinda glad that I didnt get to see my son take a breath, I think it would have just made it that much harder

It absolutely makes sense to feel that way.

breaks me heart to a million pieces thinking that your friend knew/loved that baby for 1 yr, its too much

It fucking slaughtered my heart when I heard about it and I just didn't even know what to say or do.

now I am now with 4 more beautiful boys

So blessed!!! I really want to have a son someday!!!

how did the 1 yr old pass?

SIDS... :(

[thatguest]

wow thats crazy huh you think of SIDS being a newborn to 3 month thing
so sad :(

[thatguest]

you think other babies are cute just wait till its your own

its just such a man I would die for you love, HIGHLY RECOMMEND having a kid/s, freakin hard work (and hella expensive) but so rewarding

[Mister Obvious]

I'm working on it!