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02-18-2020, 05:57 PM
Total dealbreaker...
Smile, nod, and totally write off anybody you hear utter these words.
90% of people who say this will be male...
If you're a dude, do not say these words to a woman...
Unless she's a total hobag, she will not want to be with you (ever).
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It's fine to feel that way, but just don't say it.
Very unattractive.
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Over the years I have heard a handful of dudes say these words...
Each time, I noted my instant response to the statement, and it was not good...
Instant rejection...
Not only romantically, but as a person too.
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This is one of those things it's fine to say in a group of other men... but certainly make sure it won't leave the room.
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It's fine to enjoy the "thrill of the chase" but if you live by this, it's unwise...
It's an imbalance and unhealthy, and there are likely past mental/emotional traumas to blame...
Best to find the reasons behind the behaviors and sort those out.
Its like chasing a kitty cat and getting all scratched up is part of the fun!
