THIS is what YouTube was created for!

[Guest]

in the last video you posted @ 3 - 4 min. ray reminds me of the holier than thou jigsaw character from the 2004 saw movie

the dude needs to stop thinking so much and find a soothing drug and get laid

[Mister Obvious]

Yeah, Ray just needs to smoke some weed.

[Guest]

"Subjected to childhood abuse the narcissist ages prematurely, and finds himself in a time warp. Constantly in the throws of a mid-life crisis. The narcissist keeps dreaming, hoping, planning, conspiring. As far as he's concerned reality with its sobering feedback does not exist. He occupies a world of his own making." Good stuff starts at 3:00 min.

[Mister Obvious]

0:17 uh oh, was Ray's dad a nutball??

Is Ray the illegitimate child of Dana Rene Hoecker?





Inquiring minds want to know.

[Guest]

[Guest]

when I look at rays body , his very tanned/cooked neck and head and then glance at his chest all I can think of is uncooked chicken wings and breasts

[Guest]

[Mister Obvious]

I can't imagine Ray actually having sex.

[Mister Obvious]

3:59 that kratom tea looks nasty, I dunno how he drinks that. Why drink it in tea form? If you're gonna take it just take a spoonful and chase it.

[Guest]

I think he should talk to the cat lady downstairs. It seems he is trapped in her vortex. Lmfao

[Mister Obvious]

Sounds plausible.

They could be equals.

[Guest]

this dude needs a female to brighten up his living space , hell even if he went on a Martha Stewart binge it might just help his mind skip over to a better path ....so many guys are not taught how to live in a practical way they are ignored by their mothers and not taught basic everyday things

[Guest]

*no mind of his own*  His apartment is complex. I prefer nature surrounds with far away neighbours.

[Guest]

"Lets find me some woman no man would ever want." Sigh. The dude is fucking hopeless.

[Mister Obvious]

lol :(

[Guest]

His goal everyday upon waking could be to make eye contact with the lady downstairs. It could be a solution to the chattering mind. Just blank silence. Maybe in the staircase. Everyday sustain it a little longer. Boggles the mind what could be achieved here.

[Guest]

He is lost in himself. I knew a guy looked very similar and talked the same sort of way and he ended up just jumping off a bridge onto the railway tracks below. Trouble is guys like this are so damn stubborn they dont take advice .They are intelligent but that like everything has its limits. Is he wrapped up in existentialism? Best advice for him is just 'get stupid' but he would scoff .

[somethingelseishere]

He is lost in himself. Trouble is guys like this are so damn stubborn they don't take advice .They are intelligent but that like everything has its limits. Is he wrapped up in existentialism? Best advice for him is just 'get stupid' but he would scoff .

Yes. Totally agree. He needs a Ray road map to his county line, haha. 
He's obviously no dummy, but sometimes intelligence [especially coupled 
with over-thinking] can really work against a person and their best interests.

I too think he just needs to let go for a while. Do that George Costanza thing
where he adopts an "opposite day" life approach, even if for just a week. 
Everything he would normally do, just do the exact opposite. Worked for George!

But it was a TV show, haha. Still, it would probably shatter at least a couple 
boundaries for him, even if just in the short term. And since he's self-admittedly
"desperate" then he ought to be up for nearly anything! Go for it, Ray!!

[Guest]

Itchy feet talks to the hand.

[Mister Obvious]

I'm pretty suspicious of Ray, because typically folks who are crazy enough to draw on the walls etc. don't "know" they're crazy, much less acknowledge it the way he does.