07-22-2019, 11:22 AM
(07-19-2019, 08:15 PM)Mister Obvious Wrote:
To be honest, in light of that video of her friends discussing what happened...
Shane’s thumbnail makes a lot more sense.
I thought it was strange but now with this other info, I can see what he’s trying to convey with it.
One great thing about the internet is that if you put anything out there, the audience will think of everything.
All Eugenia’s “return” videos were filmed at the same time... the one on her channel, the one with Shane. Was the lawyer there for Eugenia’s “private” video filming too? Who’s that lawyer working for, Eugenia or Eugenia’s mother? Considering the fact that at times he was speaking for her mother in the video... I think the answer is pretty clear.
9:05 when he mentions the part about whether her family is gonna be there then immediately cuts to the clips showing the total weirdness and even outright abuse... good work, well done. It goes without saying that this video was edited together after the interview... so these are very important hints that convey how he feels about it.
Also important to note that he clearly had no idea what to expect going into this interview.
9:26 then he mentions he knows her lawyer will be there “for a second”... mhmmm. He was feeling some type of way about that from the start. Shane isn’t stupid. Turns out the lawyer was there the entire time, which I’m sure he would NOT have imagined that, so really it turned out to be more ominous than he even figured.
13:20 the way Shane is talking about this clearly shows he’s unbiased... I appreciate that he is truly questioning things.
15:48 interesting choice of a shirt there... with the skeleton/skull.
17:10 I find it impossible to believe Shane hasn’t seen the video she did showing the rest of her house. It’s almost certain he has and therefore he’s trying to insinuate something with this statement... mostly that Eugenia seems locked down in her home environment.
20:02 he says this stuff like he doesn’t already know it... which, again, is calculated.
23:30 I mean just think about how HUGE these people in her family are compared to Eugenia. How intimidating and totally scary it would be if they WERE abusing you, even psychologically. Eugenia’s tinyness, and their gluttonous mass are testaments to the dynamics of their relationship.
Pretty sure the fat guy is her brother... we know both he and her mom are morbidly obese. Surely the fat dude isn’t the lawyer. Whoever that guy is has an intimidating presence and he’s always just looming in the background.
29:55 Shane is fuckinggg hilarious. I like him for the most part, haven’t watched his vids in many years though. He lost me when he dumped Lisa for a man. He’s very funny though.
30:30 Eugenia’s communication is pretty aggravating to me... it’s all a bunch of beating around the bush, a bunch of pleasantries, absolutely nothing deep at all. She seems nice, but I prefer honest.
32:50 this is the part where she doesn’t even know how to open the door. You can tell she literally never does it. Granted if you live in a huge house, that is possible... OT, but this is why having huge mansions is just pointless. You can tell she fucking neverrrr goes out there. WHY is quite possibly another matter though.
34:00 she totally skirts the issue and doesn’t even admit what’s wrong. Around 34:30 I see some concern from Shane. I think he’s coming to some realizations here.
34:33 yeah... this is where Shane gets serious and you can see it on his face, in his voice, in his movements. He gets it.
35:30 so at this point he tries to get into it... and you can see Eugenia really doesn’t wanna have this conversation. Not like Shane was trying to force her into it or something... rather, as usual, Eugenia wants to avoid and skirt the issue at all costs.
From what I can tell, after having hung out with Eugenia a bit and seen the house and whatnot, after hearing her continue skirting the issue... he starts to kick into friend/confidant mode because it’s clear some serious help is still needed here.
36:50 all she’ll say is it’s an eating disorder but she won’t label it... if it was anorexia she probably would say that, but due to the way she’s skirting I’m guessing it’s bulimia.
37:30 and that’s what Shane thinks too as he’s had personal experience with it and knows there’s often a lot of shame involved.
38:20 it’s shit like this that makes me constantly wanna throw in the towel on humanity... all of the denial, and the trauma that complicates conscious sharing and focusing on issues effectively. It’s just obnoxious and a horrible feature of human psychology, and worst part is that you can’t even blame people for it BECAUSE its roots are based in trauma. Fuck it all.
42:25 this girl is so disconnected from herself... whoever is responsible for her being so damn fucking traumatized needs to burn in hell.
43:20 I honestly don’t believe she can actually take care of herself.
44:40 - 44:54 ROFLMAO it does sound great.
Well in general I think that Eugenia will have to be watched over pretty closely if she’s going to make a full recovery. And her family is a complete and total failure of that front. Totally useless.
Eugenia should move in with a friend like Shane or... anyone. She should sell that house, give her mom and bro a small bit of money to go buy a trailer in Alabama or something that fits their aesthetic a little better. Eugenia should spend her money on food and eventual rent for herself once she learns how to take care of herself... if she can. If not, she should just remain with a friend who will make sure she’s healthy.
